Nov. 20, 2024
Jonathan White Interview
Episode 86
Public School? Private School? Home School? And many other questions about education.
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Jonathan Halfling, human.
I already, I'm already angry.
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I already don't like this
conversation.
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Elf half elf.
I would generally would go elf,
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Elf.
That's going to be in the in the
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fantasy realm.
That's generally the direction I
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go.
Oh my goodness.
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And.
What?
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What class?
It's got to be sneaky.
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Sneaky.
So an elf rogue?
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Yeah.
So you're not going to be a
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tank?
Oh no.
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OK 'cause you were a tank in in
Lao.
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Once Upon a time with a druid
character.
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OK, all right.
Sweet.
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So rogue what?
What type of weapon?
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So I just want to say we're
already establishing that I'm
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very cool.
Like we've started out with
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that.
Like that's the baseline.
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Right, right.
Yeah.
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Well a bow and arrow is the the
most natural.
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Like maybe a little poison
dagger or something like that.
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Yeah, wow, that's very cool.
So I have with me here a switch
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of, Oh no, D&D dice, you know
what I'm saying?
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So that's good.
So for those who don't know, and
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that's maybe what's that?
I don't.
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Know.
Tell me more.
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Yeah.
What is this?
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There are there are a group of
guys at our church who have
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decided to make to give D and DA
roll of the dice.
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So we're going to roll the dice
on.
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Rewind a childhood, tell our
parents this when we were kids,
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and just think about what they
would say.
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Yeah, well, it's it's still
there because Jill was a little
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bit concerned.
I'm like, it's not what we heard
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in the 80s growing up 90s.
It's not like it's mass suicide.
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And Satanic Panic.
Satanic actively, yeah, I I've
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actually, I've never, I've only
heard of dungeon Dragons like in
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movies like and like you said,
it's not with the cool kids
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playing it.
So that that's my, my
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understanding is either you're
actively worshiping Satan or all
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your friends are hanging out And
so you're you didn't get an
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about lightning.
Bolt, lightning bolt.
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That's yeah, there's that.
There's the there's the
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role-playing game and then
there's the what is it?
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The when you go out and you live
play it.
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You.
You want me to say the word?
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Lark live action role.
Playing Yeah, Larping.
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Yeah.
And so the, you know, I don't, I
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don't have any plans doing that.
OK, OK, maybe you do.
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I mean, let's just see what
happens, close it down right
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away.
Yeah, wow.
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So it's really cool.
I mean, if you But if you don't,
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I will say this.
If you don't enjoy movies at
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all, or any narrative books at
all, then you're probably not
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going to enjoy a game that
requires you to use your
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imagination a little bit.
I am not, I don't, I don't know
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when all the words, elves,
druids, fairies, bells, sorcery,
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it's not, not my thing.
But, you know, I respect,
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respect it.
I hope it's a great time.
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I I you know, I didn't talk so
much Dungeons and Dragons.
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If I did, I would have let
Jonathan walk into that house
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with the cats, which he almost
did.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
It just depends.
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I gave him the.
Wrong.
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It was dicey for a minute.
I had a, I'm not going to say
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who, but someone gave me the
wrong address for this secret
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recording location.
And yeah, there was a family
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just chilling, watching TV with
cats on the couch, and I almost
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made it into that house.
What?
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What?
No.
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What would be more terrifying?
You walk in.
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Me and Michael are just hanging
out with some cats watching TV.
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So my my first thought was I
didn't know there'd be cats
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involved.
And I'm just going to tell you
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this is probably going to
increase my coolness level even
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a little bit more.
I was a little bit excited.
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I was like, oh, I did.
I there's cats now.
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And I'm I'm a cat fan.
If if we had to, I know cereal
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has been a topic on here before,
but if we went cats versus dogs
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as another, you know, hot take,
you know, I'm firmly team cat.
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Firmly keen.
You're you're keen, you're team
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dog.
I'm team dog.
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But listen, I don't like cats,
but cats always like me.
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I, I just sit down.
I ignore them and they come up
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to me and I'll pet them.
I'm fine, you know, putting the
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creation order, you know, to
subdue creation like I'm AI am a
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human, I'm the pinnacle.
Yes, you can come to me and I
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will, you know, scratch your
ears and then you go go do what
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you want to do.
So they always come to me and
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and I'm fine with that.
We had a cat, an outside cat
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growing up.
We would leave food for and I
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would pet it.
AKA not a cat person.
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We grew up with outside cats.
We just did.
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Yeah.
You guys have cats?
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No, we, we used to, used to,
yeah, one of our children is
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allergic now and I'm a little
bit salty about it.
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I've, I've tried to push for one
of the naked cats that doesn't
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have hair because I think that
that would alleviate the, the
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allergy concerns.
Wife has not bought into that
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idea yet.
Oh man, what a way to start the
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podcast.
Cats, Dungeons and Dragons,
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Anything else we're missing?
Well, I was just going to say,
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you know, whether you send your
kids to public school or private
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school or home school, it's a
roll the dice.
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You know what I'm saying?
So but don't don't.
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OK, there.
How to get that dad joke in
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there?
That's great.
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Love it.
Bye.
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You know, this is the the role
of our guest, whether they like
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it or not.
You have to look the camera dead
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in the eye and you're going to
say, let's take it to the next
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level.
Well, let's take it to the next
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level.
Yeah.
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From the hearts of the Low
Country in South Carolina.
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It's the Take Two podcast where
we take theology to the next
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level.
So here's a joke.
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Let's do it.
Why was Harry Potter sent to the
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principal's office now?
I already know we've we've
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already rang the alarm bells of
Dungeons and Dragons, and now
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we're I just, I figured out all
of the things the first time on.
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So if you never asked me back,
I've already hit all the things.
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That's right.
So.
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Why was Harry Potter sent to the
principal's office?
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Oh man.
I want, I want in my mind is I
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want to sit and try to figure it
out.
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I know and I want to watch you
sit and.
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Try to but I don't.
I I was thinking like the
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mentors or detentions or
something like that.
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I know so little about Harry
Potter that I can't make a good
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guess.
Quit.
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So here's what it is.
It's because he was cursing in
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class.
Nice.
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Love it.
That's a great joke to Michael
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Burr.
Which one of them though?
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Was it one of the three
unforgivable characters?
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OK.
Well, that that's a good way to
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open it up because this podcast
is all about education, 'cause
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we're with the great educator,
Mr. White.
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Honestly, there never had a
thought in our mind that he'd be
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on the podcast until Principal
White.
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Now we're like, we gotta have.
Him on the podcast.
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That was the big time.
When I was a lowly teacher,
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there was no chance.
There was no chance.
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Just kidding.
So what did you know?
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You wanted to be a teacher, and
I'm assuming that your father
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had played some role in that
decision.
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So there's a lot of teaching in
my family.
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My both my parents, mom and dad
are long time teachers.
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And to that def I grew up in it
like I grew up in school.
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So I was there early, that
school that my dad taught at, I
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was there late.
And so I just it was kind of
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kind of felt like home between
the school and the church.
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Like these are like places that
I just was raised in, but I, I
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would say I didn't really know.
Here's the honest truth.
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I didn't know that I wanted to
be a teacher until I got into a
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classroom and started doing this
and started seeing some
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connections because I didn't
have, I don't have your
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traditional maybe route to the
classroom.
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So I, I did fall in love with
literature in high school.
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And so I was like, I don't know
what I'm going to do with this,
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but I want to be around
literature.
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And so I just went to be an
English major in college and was
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just insufferable for a number
of years.
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Michael was around for those
years.
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If you don't.
Have much longer.
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Hair Michael was a youth pastor
and a mentor, has been a mentor
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for me for a long time.
And so he he lived through some
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of the insufferable English
major years.
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And then towards the end of
college, I ended up working at a
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Christian bookstore.
One of the managers that came in
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had come out of education,
worked at this Christian
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bookstore, which shall remain
nameless for about a year and
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was like, I got to go back.
I got to get out of this place.
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And so he went to be the
headmaster at a school in Mount
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Pleasant.
And he just, we had developed a
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relationship.
He knew I was graduating with an
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English degree.
And he said, you know, we're
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always looking for male teachers
and academic subjects in high
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school.
Do you want to, you know, try
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teaching?
And I, he said, he actually
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said, if you graduate and you
don't know what to do, give me a
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call.
And I graduated, and I looked
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around and I looked at all of
the plethora of job
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opportunities for recently
graduated English majors and
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gave him a call.
You don't want to do Starbucks.
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Yeah, Starbucks wasn't going to
be for me.
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Of course, I always have a dream
of writing, which is every
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English majors, you know, secret
dream.
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But I got in front of 9th and
10th graders teaching world
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literature and I and you know,
not I didn't come with the
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education degree, but that
particular principle I'll just
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name drop.
His name is Joe Holsey.
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He's still in education today.
He became just a really
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significant mentor in kind of
shaping what it looked like to,
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to run a classroom and to teach
well.
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And so I, I learned from him and
it was part time the first year
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and then full time the next year
and 14 years later.
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That's, that's where I am.
Wow.
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That's what I was going to ask.
So 14 years teaching went, you
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got your masters and then
recently, recently, I don't know
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if it's last year or two,
whenever you moved up to
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principal middle school.
So you've kind of seen education
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from all these different vantage
points, got some good, good
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perspective 'cause I think, you
know, there'll be a lot of
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different, different questions
we'll ask.
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But I think one of the
polarizing things, I think
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people have really strong
opinions on things like public
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school or home school or private
school.
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And it's hard to navigate.
And sometimes people are kind of
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like, it's definitely, if you
choose something else, it's not
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good.
And I'm interested to hear, you
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know, coming from the private
cause and you grew up in private
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school teaching private school,
but you're married to someone
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teachers in the public school
and grew up in public.
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Schools and so I get, I get to
have both of those perspectives
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and, and my wife Kenya and I
we've, we've had these
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conversations about public
versus private and then maybe
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we'll get into a little bit of
that later.
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To start off though, talking
about public school in general
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trivia question do you know how
public schools got started in
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this country?
I think it was with Dewey was in
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the Dewey Decimal System that
guy.
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Did he?
So he, he had a yeah, he really
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influenced the way that school
was done and and really, we
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could probably say secularized
the the public school.
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System for For anyone who thinks
critically about this issue,
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probably a good guy for some
people, yeah.
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If you are currently employed by
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he's probably a good guy.
Yeah, and the name gets dropped
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a lot.
But interestingly, the public
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education in this country starts
with Puritans.
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The Puritans were I I I had to
look this up because I thought
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it was just an interesting fact.
They passed in 1647 this law in
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Massachusetts.
It's called the old Diluter
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Satan Law.
I like it already.
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Tell me more, the old.
Diluter Satan law.
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And so it starts off this way,
it being 1 chief project of that
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old deluder Satan to keep men
from the knowledge of the
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scriptures as in former times,
keeping them in an unknown
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tongue.
So that in these later times by
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persuading from the use of
tongues that so at least the
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true sense and meaning of the
original might be clouded with
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false glosses of Saint seeming
deceivers.
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That's just a big punch at the
Papist.
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You you hear that he's saying
like that the scriptures have
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been kept in a in a foreign
tongue and not understandable
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and glossed in ways that are not
true to the original text.
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I said knowing all of that and
that learning may not be buried
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in the graves of our forefathers
in church in Commonwealth.
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He says it is therefore ordered
by this court and authority.
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And then he goes on to say every
Township that has fifty
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families, as soon as you hit
fifty families, as soon as the
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Lord actually has increased you
to the 50 households, they're
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going to appoint someone in
their town to teach children.
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And so they're starting this as
a formalized structure, the
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Puritans.
And really their goal in in
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starting this kind of mandatory
education process is because
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they want people to be able to
read the Bible.
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That is the number one priority
for the Puritans as they're
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starting formalized education.
And then they kind of kick it
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up.
If you have 100 households or
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100 families, then there's
another kind of school that you
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open up and the constituents of
that town are kind of paying
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into the coffer to support the
schoolmaster, the school teacher
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and the needs of that school.
Well, back to the Puritans.
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That's good.
And is it the church that's
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doing this or the government, or
were they kind of the same thing
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for the Puritans?
I'm not sure for the.
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Puritans, they, they held those
things pretty close together.
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Yeah, yeah.
And that's that that's really
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good.
A lot different, different.
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It's come a long way.
We'll we'll say that I'm sure
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yeah.
All this enlightenment that mid
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1800s nineteen 100.
Sure, things shifted a little
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bit, but I like getting back,
back to the roots that it's, you
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know, a Christian ideal.
Or scripture, you know, literacy
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in in this arena is a very
judeo-christian ideal because
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again, it comes back to the
people of the book, right?
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There are people that that have
access to this revelation from
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God and we need them to be able
to read it.
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We need them to be able to study
it.
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I love it because when I think
of education, I think in the
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Bible, I just think of like
Deuteronomy 6 and it's like
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backed into Jewish upbringing
and all this stuff.
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So I like, I like, I like all of
that.
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That's a good kind of set the
baseline for for any anything
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else you got Michael on like
background with Jonathan that we
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want to touch and kind of
highlight.
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Yeah.
Well, kind of going back, how
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much would you say that you are?
Because, well, maybe a lot of
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our listeners don't know, but
some of them maybe do.
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When your dad's in the
classroom, whether it be at
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church, and I've seen some clips
of him in another classroom,
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it's very extroverted.
I guess I could say how much of
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that has bled over to your
teaching?
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I, I know you're, everyone's
different and I remember I'll,
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I'll, I'm going to ask a
question while saying something,
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then I'll turn it over to you.
I remember when I was teaching
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in the Navy and I was, someone
said in there like, well, I just
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thought that you were going to
do this, this and this because
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that's how I do it.
I'm like, that's not, that's not
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necessarily me.
I'm not going to do things, you
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know, I'm not going to have the
same type of personality that
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you have.
So that's a long way of asking,
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you know, kind of how, how would
you compare yours and your dad's
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teaching styles?
So if you know Jack White as a
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teacher, you know that he's an
emphatic teacher.
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He's charismatic in the
classroom.
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And if you, if I would say this,
if you know me personally, but
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you haven't seen me in the
classroom, it's you might be a
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little surprised by seeing me in
the classroom because I do, I do
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get energetic and I there, there
are certain things, OK.
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So as you, you know, as you
teach for a long time, you get
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known for certain things.
There are certain, I don't know,
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phrases that different teachers
have that happen over and over
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again.
And I'm just different little
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idiosyncrasies that you become
known for.
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And the classrooms around my
classroom knew some of my
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idiosyncrasies because they were
they were really loud.
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So like early on in the year
when we're doing grammar in 7th
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grade, we talked about the four
types of sentences.
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And I mean, it's an exclamatory
sentence, right?
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Like we're not going to, we're
not going to be quiet if it's an
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exclamatory sentence.
And so the classrooms around me
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just kind of got used to there
was going to be some yelling and
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everything was OK.
Like it wasn't like nobody was
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getting hurt, but like there was
going to be some yelling.
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So yeah, that's it's.
So some of that has bled over,
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probably.
Yeah, for sure.
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That's good.
That's good.
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Great.
Are we can we sign up for like
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spots?
Can I audit, can I audit one of
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your classes?
I would love to.
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Well, here's the here's the
challenging thing is I'm not in
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the classroom.
That's right.
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You're so so as yeah.
So now as the assistant
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principal for middle school, I I
have a different role and it's
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and I don't get that same kind
of interaction.
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Do you miss it some?
What's that?
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Do you miss it some?
Oh, yeah, for sure.
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Yeah.
It's it's a different now.
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I still am.
I'm still finding ways to
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interact with students and build
those relationships.
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But it's just not the same when
like, you know, when you have
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those students in the classroom
day after day after day, you
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establish the rhythms and
relationships and it's just,
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it's just a different thing.
And so now my role is, is
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different than it was when I was
in the classroom.
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And then part of that I miss.
Now I still get to scratch that
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It's sometimes, right.
So I get to do Sunday school
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classes at our church.
Sometimes I'll speak in Chapel
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and also get a chance to present
at like SKISA conferences.
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SKISA is the kind of governing
body, South Carolina Independent
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School Association.
And and so we have yearly
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conferences.
And I just last weekend got to
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go in and present, you know,
some strategies for teaching
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research in the middle school
classroom, which was riveting,
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if I do say so.
Yeah, and we should say this
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because I'm going to butcher it,
but you have like some special
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designation, like a residency or
like you're an expert.
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Like, you know what I'm saying?
Like you've got some.
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Say say more of those master
teacher I like.
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I don't know what it's called,
but.
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Yeah, I like expert, I like you
could just say artist in
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residence.
No, that, that's not a real
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thing.
So yeah, the SKISA master
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teacher as a designation that
we, you kind of work towards
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over the course of a year,
develop a portfolio and and
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video yourself teaching and send
that off to SKISA and they
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confer or don't confer master
teacher status.
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Now, I happen to be aware of the
school with where you taught and
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where you are a principal, and
I'm also aware that the high
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school assistant principal
principals and then teaches a
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section or two of mathematics.
Is there a time in the future
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where you will go back and teach
a section or two of English?
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Or does that make sense because
it's like you need to do 3 or
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none and three is probably too
much.
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Yeah.
So the way the English classes
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run in the middle school, I
would probably need to teach 3
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to keep them all together.
Now, I mean there is there are
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team teaching possibilities and
you can do some of that Co
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planning to make sure that
they're that the classes are
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tracking together.
It does complicate it.
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It does vary the experience of
the students from classroom to
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classroom.
But what I have found this year
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and maybe at some point in the
future, I may try to get back in
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the classroom.
But what I have found this year
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is that the role that I have now
is just it's, it's really hard.
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It would be very difficult to,
to be able to schedule like, OK,
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so this is class time because
there are things that come up at
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all times during the school day.
I would, if I were in a
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classroom, I would probably be
pulled out of that classroom by
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some event or something that's
happening on campus two or three
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times a week minimum.
And so it would, it would, it
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would be a challenge.
And I'm actually a little upset
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right now because I missed a
prime opportunity.
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Jonathan, my kid, my second
grader, his teacher is Miss
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Gilberts.
I coach her kid.
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I see her husband at least
weekly.
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And I was like, I should have
asked him just questions the
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spring.
I'm like I missed my
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opportunity.
Do you know how close those that
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they were?
I've just, I've heard stories
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but I don't really know.
But they were they were right
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next to each other so much that
I went to introduce myself to.
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John, not Jonathan's replacement
for teaching, but the the
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replacement for where he was
like his classroom because I
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think he's a, a history teacher.
And I went to introduce myself
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to him.
And Matt, I forgot his last
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Gilbert was like, he thought I
was messing around at first
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because it was so ingrained that
that was Jonathan over there,
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but it wasn't Jonathan anymore.
So.
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No, no longer.
That was a that was.
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A missed opportunity.
Yeah, you really did because he,
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yeah, he teaching next to each
other for the last like 7 years.
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We have found many opportunities
to poke at each other.
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So if you were sitting here, I
know there are things I would
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even, I would even like tell
students like so they would, you
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know, there's a certain class
that would come to my classroom
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for English and the next class
would be Mr. Gilbert's.
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And I would just try to like
front load.
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Like I'm like, hey, if you want
to try to get class off the
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rails in Mr. Gilbert's
classroom, I was like, here's
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today, here's what it's going to
be.
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Somebody's going to just quote
this one verse from Ecclesiastes
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and just just lob it, just lob
it out there and you're going to
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see something happen.
He's, he's either going to crush
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that internal desire to just
expound on Ecclesiastes, or
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he's, he's going to go ahead and
blow 20 minutes talking about
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vanity.
Vanity.
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Oh, that's great.
Yeah, man.
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Well, lesson learned next time.
Next time I'll ask him.
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But his kids a good, good
goalie.
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Our soccer team we're destroying
at North Lake.
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We're winning like 5/8 to 1/8 to
0.
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Wow, you know that's what.
It's like.
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About pedagogy, Yeah, yeah,
yeah.
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Especially, especially at this
level, it's all about putting
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up.
Well, you need to let those kids
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know they're not gonna win
everything.
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In life, yeah.
So doing a service.
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So.
You're crushing is teaching.
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That to the other teams.
It's great, but so good we have
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a good foundation good baseline
for I guess I think it's
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important your journey and then
you've like pursuit you've been
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very successful pursued this
master teacher your assistant
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principal and so that this
perspective.
449
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:06,400
So I, I'll tell you where my, my
heads at, you know, thinking
450
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,280
about, you know, talk people
home school is the only way
451
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,920
because we, we don't want to let
our kids get indoctrinated by
452
00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:14,520
the state.
There's people on the other
453
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:17,400
side, you know, man, we, we
don't want to totally withdraw
454
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:19,440
from society.
This Benedict option.
455
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:22,560
Let's just insulate ourselves in
a bubble and we don't go to
456
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:23,680
school board meetings.
We don't care.
457
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:25,840
And no wonder public schools are
off the rails because all the
458
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:29,360
Christians said I'm out and
there's private school, this
459
00:22:29,360 --> 00:22:33,120
hybrid where you can get
Christian education, but it
460
00:22:33,120 --> 00:22:35,120
ain't cheap is that much?
Should we, you know, should we
461
00:22:35,120 --> 00:22:37,800
send our kids to public school
and solve the missions for
462
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:38,280
Christ?
I don't know.
463
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:42,800
There's a lot of, you know, pros
and cons Michael Mott is a a
464
00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,680
product of the public school.
Can't we all tell, tell I'm just
465
00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:46,600
kidding.
Great, great.
466
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:48,680
My wife, public school, she's a
public teacher of your wife.
467
00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:52,080
So I think we're all in
different spots.
468
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:55,000
And so I didn't really ask a
question, but there's a lot of
469
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:57,040
floating thoughts out there.
We want to latch on to something
470
00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:58,480
and try to talk through some of
this.
471
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:03,040
Well, when you talk about the
public versus private kind of
472
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:05,320
divide, I think, I think it can
be really divisive.
473
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:07,680
I think especially inside the
church there can be, I mean
474
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:11,720
there are really strong opinions
on it and someone.
475
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,240
At our Home group basically said
there's only one right answer,
476
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:18,720
home school.
Well, and, and to be fair, if
477
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:21,240
you look around at culture and
you kind of see the shift that's
478
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:24,920
happened since around the 50s,
as you, as you look at the death
479
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:29,200
of modernism in the birth of
postmodernism, the kind of
480
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:34,000
negation of, of the idea of
truth, you do kind of wonder,
481
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,880
well then, what's the basis for
a public education system?
482
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:41,560
If, if as a culture,
theoretically, we've kind of
483
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:46,600
ditched objective truth as a, as
a thing, where what's the
484
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:51,880
foundation that we have for, for
behavioral norms, academic norms
485
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:55,600
in the public school system so
that there are big thoughts.
486
00:23:56,560 --> 00:24:00,120
And I would say this first and
foremost, I I would never want
487
00:24:00,120 --> 00:24:04,000
to denigrate teachers in the
public school system who are
488
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:08,000
doing a good job because there
are a a lot of teachers and
489
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:09,800
there are a lot of Christian
teachers.
490
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,760
And they get vilified a lot,
like all these, these, you know,
491
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:14,720
teachers.
Yeah, I people talk bad about
492
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:15,080
them.
What?
493
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:18,040
I mean, what do they mean to or
not that harshly, but I hear
494
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:19,960
that a lot.
My wife, maybe I'm sensitive to
495
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,640
my wife was a public teacher.
It's like, oh, you hear these
496
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:23,720
things and it's like, wow,
really kind of look down.
497
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:27,080
Sometimes and, and the Christian
teacher in the public school
498
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,880
system is walking a very fine
line.
499
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,640
I mean, it is a, it is a
difficult thing to be able to
500
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:39,640
manage the personal faith and
what that has to do with the,
501
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:44,120
the interaction with the public
in this setting where the rules
502
00:24:44,120 --> 00:24:48,360
have kind of been set up to, to
say we have to leave that at the
503
00:24:48,360 --> 00:24:49,760
door when you come in this
building.
504
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:53,240
We're not, we don't have that
capacity to talk about those
505
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:56,720
things.
But those teachers are, are
506
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,840
there are a lot of missionary
teachers and they are, they're
507
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:04,400
ministering in ways that the
teachers in the private schools
508
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:07,040
don't have access to.
They're ministering to a
509
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:10,120
population that private school
teachers don't have access to.
510
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:14,120
And so I would never want to to
denigrate what those teachers
511
00:25:14,120 --> 00:25:17,080
are doing because it is, it is
really difficult.
512
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:22,400
My wife Kenya, grew up in public
schools and she teaches there.
513
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:25,640
She she's taught in public
schools from kindergarten up
514
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:29,200
through high school.
And then, and I mean, and we
515
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,880
were talking like rookie teacher
of the year, like where she's,
516
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,800
she's an accolated teacher.
She's a fantastic rock star
517
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,120
teacher.
In fact, I have to say she's
518
00:25:36,120 --> 00:25:39,200
gone from kindergarten all the
way to college level.
519
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:43,320
She has taught everything in
that mix and done and done all
520
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:46,520
of it.
Well, she teaches at a public
521
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:50,400
school and she says I wouldn't
send my kids there.
522
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:53,120
And so she has that perspective.
Now.
523
00:25:53,360 --> 00:25:56,920
She's also there and she also
ministers and she's able to have
524
00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:00,040
relationships with these
students in a certain population
525
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:03,480
of students that she works with.
She is an absolute light.
526
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:07,600
And when they come with problems
or they come asking questions,
527
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:11,520
that's when she is able to to
actually minister in ways that
528
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:15,000
are kind of biblically based.
So what I hear you saying is
529
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,240
maybe instead of sending our
kids to be missionaries to
530
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:21,080
public schools, we send adult
teachers who love the Lord and
531
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:22,960
love these kids to be the
missionaries.
532
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,560
There is a need for missionary
teachers in the public school
533
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,840
system for sure.
And, and I think that's
534
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,680
something that we will have to
talk about.
535
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:36,280
The idea of missionary kids in a
public school is is cool.
536
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:42,360
I would tell you probably 1 out
of 1000 children is equipped for
537
00:26:42,360 --> 00:26:44,680
that work.
Yeah, I, I, I came across this
538
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:49,760
quote by Bodhi Bakkam that
basically said your kids are not
539
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,320
children, are not missionaries,
they're the mission field.
540
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:54,360
And I think that's, that's a
good perspective 'cause it
541
00:26:54,360 --> 00:26:56,440
covers both of that when you
think of your own children.
542
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:59,640
And then like we're saying,
Kenya, my, my wife would say the
543
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,080
similar thing.
It's pretty amazing.
544
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:04,920
I mean, you're spending so much
time with kids and kids latch on
545
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:06,840
to you and there's a lot of
people from a different
546
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,080
situation.
It's just like you're that
547
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:10,480
natural.
People just come to you.
548
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:13,680
It's like to have someone come
to you with problems.
549
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,280
It's like, wow, you can't.
Missionaries go places hoping
550
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:17,600
people will come to them.
I think people will just
551
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:18,920
naturally come to you.
That's pretty amazing.
552
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:24,160
It is, and especially as as
teachers manifest the fruit of
553
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:27,680
the Spirit in that secular
environment, it really does
554
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:31,040
speak volumes.
I mean, it it you stand out in
555
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:34,800
that environment if you are not
the one in the teachers break
556
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,840
room that's always griping about
these students, that the one
557
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,200
that is uplifting the students.
And this is what Kenya has
558
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:43,880
always been in whatever
schooling situation she's been
559
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,920
in.
She has been the one that is
560
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,880
like, I'm here for the kids.
Like we're going to we're going
561
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,960
to meet them where they are and
lift them up.
562
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:55,520
We're not going to sit here and
snipe at them and pick at them
563
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,160
and say all the problems that we
have with them.
564
00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:00,400
It's going to be OK, this is the
behavior.
565
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:01,920
Now let's move.
Let's move them up.
566
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,840
Like let's get around them and
move them up.
567
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,520
And that's how the conversation
has to be around students.
568
00:28:07,360 --> 00:28:11,640
Too often when teachers get
together it it just turns into a
569
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,600
gripe fest.
And that's, that's poisonous.
570
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,520
Yeah.
And I would say that's probably
571
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:20,920
not exclusive to public schools
because you're going to have
572
00:28:21,360 --> 00:28:24,960
private schools that have
different levels of teachers.
573
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:30,040
And, you know, Northwood is not
exclusive to you.
574
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:33,240
You don't have to be a Christian
to go there.
575
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:38,360
So I remember when I taught
there a couple of years, you
576
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,760
know, someone, someone was like,
well, you're teaching all
577
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,000
Christians.
I'm like, by far, I'm not
578
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,800
teaching all Christians.
So I, I viewed them as a mission
579
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:50,760
field as well, maybe not as hard
hit a mission field as a public
580
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,280
school, but it was still, there
was a need there.
581
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:57,440
And I think you do have some
teachers who stand out, who love
582
00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:02,440
the students more, who are
trying to model and build in and
583
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:05,280
you know, they're still going to
draw those students and some of
584
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:07,600
it's personality driven.
So you have some students drawn
585
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:10,280
to different teachers you know
as well.
586
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,800
I think it's a really good kind
of launching point to talk
587
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:14,240
about.
All right.
588
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,840
So let's talk some some public
versus private.
589
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,440
It's interesting that you say
you feel like it's maybe maybe
590
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,160
less of a mission field than the
public school.
591
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,840
Well, I mean, it may not be as
dark a mission field.
592
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:30,480
I think it's probably every bit
of mission field maybe.
593
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:36,040
Well, I would say I could talk
about spiritual things in a
594
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:40,840
private school openly where I
couldn't necessarily in a public
595
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,520
school.
So that maybe even a better
596
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:45,680
opportunity.
And the populace is you're
597
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,840
coming from a different angle.
I'll tell you the number one
598
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,640
concern that I have for
Christian School students is
599
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,440
that they, they, they believe
that they are Christians because
600
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:57,680
they are culturally Christian.
And so I like, so in 14 years of
601
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:03,240
Christian School education,
being in the classroom and now
602
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:05,400
seeing it from the
administrative standpoint, I
603
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:08,440
even, I mean, I, even, I, I
collected data and it's self
604
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,640
reported at the last school that
I was at before Northwood, I
605
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:15,360
collected data from students.
And it was, it was alarming to
606
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:20,680
look at the numbers of students
in a Christian School
607
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:24,680
environment.
Who would you know on a scale of
608
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:30,320
one to five, you know, how
confident are you that you are
609
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:33,840
saved?
And to have even 40% of the
610
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:37,080
students in a Bible class that I
was teaching.
611
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:41,280
By the way, I taught high school
English for six years at this
612
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:44,600
previous school and then I went
full Bible for two years.
613
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,200
Bible and Chapel were the only
things that I taught all of the
614
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:50,080
high school Bible and then
coordinating the chapels.
615
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,560
And so I, that's when I, that's
when I'll tell you that two
616
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:56,200
years of teaching Bible to
Christian School students
617
00:30:56,760 --> 00:31:01,480
changed my whole perspective of
ministry in Christian schools,
618
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:05,240
because I think so many people
look at a Christian School and
619
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:07,320
they go, man, that's just the
dream.
620
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,600
Like everybody there is, say all
these churched families and
621
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:12,440
there must be no behavior
problems.
622
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:16,760
And that is simply not the case.
We, we have a lot of students in
623
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:20,360
a Christian School who are not
saved and they're unchurched.
624
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:24,480
Their, their families see it as
just a better education, a
625
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,040
better situation for them to be
in.
626
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:28,480
And they have the money to pay
for it.
627
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,240
And they go, OK, we'll go, we'll
send them to private school.
628
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:31,520
It's fine.
And they're going to talk about
629
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:32,920
the Bible.
That's whatever like that.
630
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:35,560
That's not our thing.
But they would send their, their
631
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:37,800
kids because they feel like it's
a better opportunity.
632
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:43,760
But there are an alarming number
of kids who even are churched
633
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,920
but biblically illiterate.
And it's, it's almost like
634
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:50,080
they've been around the gospel
so much.
635
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:53,800
They've sort of just, I've
gotten too used to hearing it.
636
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,640
This can happen in in churches
too.
637
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,120
If you grew up in church, you
just hear it so much.
638
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:04,480
Sometimes some of these kids
kind of feel like, I mean, like
639
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,400
I'm Christian, like I go to
church once in a while and like
640
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,080
I go to a Christian School.
But the truth about Christian
641
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:14,120
schools is not, it's not just
that cut and dry.
642
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:17,520
So the behavioral content is not
different between a public
643
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,120
school and a private school.
And I'm Speaking of private
644
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,560
Christian schools because that's
my experience.
645
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,400
But the behavioral content is
not different between the two
646
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,880
systems.
You, you see the same behaviors
647
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:31,880
in the public school and in the
private school because you have
648
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:35,440
kids in both schools and you
have sin natures in both
649
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,640
schools.
I think some of the differences
650
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:42,840
is that in the public school
system you may have a higher
651
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:47,240
concentration of those behaviors
than you do in the private
652
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:51,200
Christian School, but the
behaviors still exist.
653
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:55,360
So then if you have the same
kinds of behaviors, you have the
654
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:59,200
same sin issues in a public
school and in a private school,
655
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,760
what advantage then?
Maybe Paul would say it this
656
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:03,640
way.
What advantage then is private?
657
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,080
And I say very much, very great
in every regard.
658
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:11,640
Right.
So let's talk about private
659
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,480
Christian schools.
And this is going to be out of,
660
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:16,800
out of my experience of teaching
into and then having visited
661
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:20,800
others and you know, you know,
collaborated with teachers in
662
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,680
other private Christian schools.
There's generally smaller
663
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:27,360
classes and that's a huge plus.
That's what's 1 of the the major
664
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:30,280
actually drawing points that we
when we get students into our
665
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:33,960
school, one of the major drawing
points is smaller class size.
666
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:36,240
What's a typical public school
class size?
667
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:40,280
When when Kenya had she's at,
she's in a more specialized
668
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,680
situation now, but when she was
teaching general population
669
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:47,040
students, she could have 30 and
that would be pretty normal.
670
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:51,080
I know that some of my some of
the teachers in the middle
671
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:55,800
school hallway right now at my
school have talked about having
672
00:33:55,800 --> 00:34:00,920
upwards of 3030, 334 students,
and that's middle school
673
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,440
students.
What's the limit for like for
674
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:05,680
Northwood because it could vary
from school to school?
675
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:11,520
Where we are right now is we cap
classes at 24 dot dot dot maybe
676
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:14,239
25 couple couple of them 20
fives.
677
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:17,840
Because when my last year
teaching trig I had one class of
678
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,960
25 and I was like this is a.
Lot that gets to the that that
679
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:21,840
that's the upper but.
It was.
680
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,920
It was that way because of
senior schedules and stuff.
681
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:27,800
And so it just was a special it
was one of those dot dot dots.
682
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:31,159
There's 25 in there, but I can
that was tight.
683
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:34,040
Adding five more kids that
you're responsible to try to
684
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:37,159
understand where there are
missing and under
685
00:34:37,159 --> 00:34:38,840
misunderstanding.
It would be very tough.
686
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:42,480
To try to individualize for 25
students in a class period is is
687
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:47,520
very challenging.
So by the way, the perfect class
688
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:49,880
size is 18 and I'll, I'll die on
that.
689
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,040
You know, that is the perfect
class size.
690
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,960
Yeah, 18, but generally smaller
classes, generally a smaller
691
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,440
concentration of those
challenging behaviors.
692
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,920
Now that all that depends on a
school's enrollment policy.
693
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,720
There are small Christian
schools that kind of just have
694
00:35:03,720 --> 00:35:07,160
to take whoever applies for
financial reasons.
695
00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:10,240
Our school doesn't have that
particular situation.
696
00:35:10,240 --> 00:35:15,040
We have some pretty significant
standards for academics and
697
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:18,160
behavior for the enrollment
process or admission.
698
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:22,640
Yeah, that too.
And, and, and so if you get to
699
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:25,680
be selective with the students
that you're admitting, well, you
700
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:28,720
naturally minimize some of those
problematic behaviors.
701
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,640
That doesn't mean you get rid of
them, but the concentration of
702
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:33,160
the behaviors generally goes
down.
703
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:38,360
I'll tell you the, I think maybe
the number one benefit of the
704
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:42,160
private Christian School is in
our responses to those
705
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:45,560
behavioral problems in the
public school system.
706
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:52,280
There are behavior modification
plans and there are strategies
707
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:56,040
and there are things that they
work with, but they can't really
708
00:35:56,040 --> 00:36:00,720
sit down and talk with a kid
about why what you did was
709
00:36:00,720 --> 00:36:05,800
wrong.
And that's, that's 50% of my job
710
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:07,240
right now.
That's what I do.
711
00:36:07,240 --> 00:36:12,960
I sit down and talk with kids
about what is right and what is
712
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,680
wrong and why do we have those
standards like so that's that's
713
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:20,920
crucial in the in the way that
we deal with behavioral problems
714
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,800
with students.
The public school system is not
715
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:27,080
able to provide a foundation for
what is moral behavior.
716
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:30,680
It's kind of it's just kind of a
hangover from the
717
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:32,840
judeo-christian framework of our
nation.
718
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:34,960
Like these are generally
accepted things.
719
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:36,960
You generally shouldn't be rude
to people.
720
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:39,400
You generally shouldn't use
offensive language.
721
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:43,000
You like all these things.
They're just kind of they're
722
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,360
kind of wishy washy.
If you don't have something that
723
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:49,600
you can say for this reason for
because of this objective truth
724
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:53,360
that comes from the creator,
this behavior is wrong.
725
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,760
And that's one of the things
that we get to do in a private
726
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:59,320
Christian School.
Wow, quick question.
727
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,040
I don't know, I have no idea
about this.
728
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:02,640
So it could be anywhere.
What's this?
729
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:06,520
When I hear people talk about
positives of public school,
730
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:10,640
sometimes they'll point to, you
know, special education
731
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:11,760
accommodations, these kind of
things.
732
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:13,720
So I don't know what it's like
in AI know it probably varies
733
00:37:13,720 --> 00:37:15,680
across private schools, but I
I've heard that's like one of
734
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,680
the things the resources
sometimes aren't there, that
735
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:19,840
kind of thing.
And that is, and so I've, I've
736
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:23,680
got some drawbacks kind of that
I thought through one of those
737
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:28,960
drawbacks of private Christian
schools is generally a, a
738
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:33,400
smaller awareness of kind of the
reality of mental health issues.
739
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,040
But I think that's a, I think
it's a church issue.
740
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:39,760
I think our, our churches have
been maybe a little bit slow to
741
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:42,600
look at that.
I think, I mean, I maybe I'm a
742
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,360
little biased.
I think our church does really
743
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:48,160
well with this because of our
connection with the Low Country
744
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:52,680
Biblical Counseling Center and,
and an understanding of what,
745
00:37:52,720 --> 00:37:56,400
what mental health is and how
Scripture speaks into it and how
746
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,160
the Holy Spirit speaks into
those situations.
747
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:05,160
But there are definitely more
resources for special education
748
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:06,960
for some of that mental health
awareness.
749
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:10,480
But but again, in the public
school, if you were to go see a
750
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:14,440
counselor and you're dealing
with anxiety, there are some
751
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:18,360
things that they can do that
physiologically will help move
752
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,480
that process.
But there's a foundation that's
753
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:22,880
missing.
There's a foundation of truth
754
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:26,200
that's missing.
Now, let's say there are some
755
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:31,880
kids with autism at Northwood,
but I wouldn't say we have
756
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:38,840
anybody that has any major like
special education requirements
757
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:43,440
type of things that So that is
that's, I guess you could
758
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:47,080
consider that a drawback if
that's your child, but maybe
759
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:50,000
it's a positive if it's not your
child, because you know, the
760
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:54,080
teacher is not trying to
individualize to a very wide
761
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,360
range of students.
It's, it's some, like you said,
762
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:58,280
it's a little bit narrowed in
their focus.
763
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:00,440
It is, yeah, because of
enrollment policies.
764
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:03,400
So it provides that that
narrowness a little bit.
765
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,920
And I I bring that my wife was a
special education teacher for
766
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,200
for many years.
So I was like thinking about
767
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,000
that.
And then, you know, other people
768
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:12,040
when they talk, not that this is
the end all be all reason, but
769
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,600
you know, they say in a public
school system, you just get
770
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:19,960
exposure to the community.
It's not as like cookie cutter
771
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:23,400
to where you just get, you know,
not that this is a maybe this
772
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:25,960
could be a bad thing too, but
just experience dealing with
773
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:30,160
different kinds of people versus
a small slice of society.
774
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:32,200
You're kind of restricted home
schooling is the ultimate
775
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:34,080
version of that where you're
really restricted, right, where
776
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:38,440
you don't really interact as
much as you would in a, in a
777
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:41,320
public school probably.
And I would say at Northwood, we
778
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,280
have a very diverse student
population.
779
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:46,960
One of the reasons that I like,
was really adamant that I wanted
780
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,200
to get there and wanted to get
my kids there.
781
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:55,840
Back in 20/17/2018 when I was
looking for a change, the
782
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:58,160
diversity of the student
population was one of the things
783
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:01,560
that I was like that I, I want
my kids in this diversity.
784
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:05,880
Like I want them to to be able
to interact with people from
785
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:09,960
lots of different backgrounds
and ethnicities and, and really
786
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:15,320
kind of have that.
Multiple kind of slice of life
787
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:19,840
view from different people and
it it brings its challenges, but
788
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:21,440
they're good.
They're good challenges to have
789
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:22,720
to work.
Through No, I like I like that
790
00:40:22,720 --> 00:40:25,240
you said that because sorry,
Claire, my voice.
791
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,840
That's one reason we we went
from homeschooling to private
792
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:29,840
school.
I've really had a great
793
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,080
experience Northwick for that
exact reason.
794
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:34,280
And you know, I think people it
is.
795
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,040
It cuts both ways.
People on the homeschool side of
796
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,800
things might say there's a lot
of wasted time in the school
797
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:40,040
system when you get done with
everything.
798
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:45,000
But at the same time, my
experience in life is that I've
799
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:48,520
heard it said, you know, life is
a giant crew project me learn me
800
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,760
having a bad teacher in high
school was actually probably
801
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:52,920
good for me because I'm not a
bad manager in real life.
802
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:55,600
And sometimes when you cut that
out, you can be more efficient.
803
00:40:56,240 --> 00:40:58,000
But it's good to work with
adversity.
804
00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:59,440
Things aren't things aren't
perfect.
805
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,280
So it's like it cuts both ways,
maybe less efficient, but you
806
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,880
learn dealing with obstacles and
going through processes, not
807
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:07,800
that they're always the best or
whatever.
808
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:10,160
Yeah.
So it's another bullet point
809
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:12,720
that I have for the private
school is this development of
810
00:41:12,720 --> 00:41:15,280
community and this development
of social capital.
811
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:19,640
And so there is something
significant about learning in a
812
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:23,040
community that is somewhat
larger and somewhat diverse.
813
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:28,760
But then there, but then the
smaller class sizes still give
814
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:31,840
us this chance that I can, I can
see one of our middle school
815
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:33,920
students walking down the
hallway and I can tell from
816
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:35,840
their face if there's something
wrong.
817
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:38,840
And I can, I can pull that kid
aside and go, hey, like what's
818
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:40,280
going on today?
Is there anything that I can
819
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:43,960
help you with?
And it that's just that is just
820
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:48,240
something that we have a mandate
to be about at a school like
821
00:41:48,240 --> 00:41:52,240
like Northwood, where the
students are in this kind of
822
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:57,080
this kind of net of social
connections that is healthy for
823
00:41:57,080 --> 00:41:58,680
them.
It's a community that is good
824
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:02,640
for them.
And I know come back to to talk
825
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:05,480
about Matt Gilbert.
He, he went to North Northwood
826
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:10,840
as a student and he, he can tell
you stories about days that he
827
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:15,480
was in the hallway and one of
his administrators just just
828
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:17,640
felt something wasn't right and
pulled him in and had
829
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,840
conversations and, and worked
with him.
830
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:23,200
And that is a, a beautiful thing
that we get to do for students
831
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:26,200
to have that kind of social
capital being built up in this,
832
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:28,400
this safe community.
No, I'm.
833
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,240
I'm.
Amazed this talk positively
834
00:42:30,240 --> 00:42:32,480
about Northwood.
It's like I walked there like
835
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:35,160
there's like 50 different
teachers and kids, like yelling
836
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:37,080
out Jayden's name and like
people know him.
837
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:42,120
And then even like I barely work
with, you know, I've barely seen
838
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,920
Miss Van Dusen or Coach Steele,
these people, but they're like,
839
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:47,440
hey, Zach, how's it going?
I see them like once every four
840
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:48,200
weeks.
Like, how are you?
841
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:50,000
Like remembering all these
parents names and things.
842
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:51,480
I've been really impressed with
all that.
843
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:54,600
I can run down a couple of.
Remember you and Jayden because
844
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,600
Jayden pulled the fire alarm
when he was like 2 years old
845
00:42:57,600 --> 00:42:59,200
during basketball.
Oh, yeah, I can't.
846
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:01,920
I can't remember.
I I let my someone watch my kid
847
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:02,960
while I was coaching.
Who was it?
848
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:04,120
What's her name?
Chloe.
849
00:43:04,240 --> 00:43:07,840
Chloe Yeah, that's that's
actually.
850
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:09,680
A good point.
I think we need that story on
851
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:13,080
the podcast.
Maybe if Chloe's ever.
852
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:14,760
On podcast, that could be the
first.
853
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,680
Side of it, yeah, that's good.
So a couple of other things that
854
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:20,560
as as far as advantages in the,
in that private school,
855
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:24,520
Christian School world, our
percentage of extracurricular
856
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:27,000
participation, there is
something for every single
857
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,720
student to do.
Now we talk about, you know,
858
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,280
extra opportunities in the
public sector.
859
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,440
And I think that I think the
variety is probably wider in the
860
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:38,480
public school system because
they have funding for lots of
861
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:41,800
different things.
But I will say the last time we
862
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:44,400
ran the numbers, we had
something like 88% of our
863
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:47,280
students in the Upper school at
Northwood Academy participating
864
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:48,800
in some kind of extra
curricular.
865
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,000
And that might have been an art
club, that might have been
866
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:52,720
archery, soccer, football.
I I.
867
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:55,200
Just I was going to say it,
probably not chess.
868
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:55,840
Club.
Probably not.
869
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:57,200
That's a waste of time.
Probably not.
870
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,080
You got to bring in that that
participation money.
871
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,840
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Oh, and I was Speaking of chess.
872
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:06,520
I was taking a little listen to
one of the recent podcasts
873
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,600
there.
There's a quote that there was a
874
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,440
pawn and a checkerboard.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
875
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:14,960
Unbelievable.
That, I mean, Joe read, I mean,
876
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:16,920
it wasn't Joe's quote.
He just read a quote from
877
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,360
someone else.
And it was like, you know, is it
878
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:21,400
sometimes when you're reading
through the sovereignty God, it
879
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:23,440
might feel like we're all just
pawns on a checkerboard.
880
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:26,160
And I was like, this is crazy.
Maybe the point was life doesn't
881
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:27,240
make sense.
Maybe it was.
882
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:29,640
Something deeper, the metaphor
in there.
883
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:32,560
I just thought it would make
Michael really angry just to see
884
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:33,600
that I was like it.
Doesn't.
885
00:44:34,240 --> 00:44:36,800
Make sense?
The other things freedom to
886
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:39,840
integrate biblical worldview.
Really, it's not just freedom to
887
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:42,440
do it, it's a mandate.
Like we're we tell our teachers
888
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:44,680
this is one of your primary
roles.
889
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:47,200
It's easy to intrigue.
This to yeah, it's to help
890
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:51,440
students see the this holistic
view of their discipline in
891
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:55,320
light of a Christian worldview.
And then there's also a freedom
892
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:58,400
from from isolating and
emphasizing certain state
893
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:01,560
standards that just have to be
checked off the list for state
894
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:05,200
testing so that a school gets
funding from those test scores
895
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,560
like that.
We we have a freedom from that
896
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:11,760
in the private school.
Now, there are also drawbacks.
897
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:15,440
You do run the risk of some less
qualified teachers because
898
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:19,240
there's not the same
requirements for a private
899
00:45:19,240 --> 00:45:22,800
school hiring and, and it can
vary from school to school.
900
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,040
Generally it's a, it's a degree
in the content area that you're
901
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:29,840
teaching that you have to have,
not an education degree.
902
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:33,480
Now I'm an example of that.
I had an English degree and went
903
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:37,200
on to have some great mentors
and then develop the skill set
904
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:42,200
to, to do teaching.
But it does, it does open the
905
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:45,080
door for some less qualified
teachers.
906
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:47,880
Although I will say this goes
the other way too.
907
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:53,080
Not every teacher that gets a
degree in education is qualified
908
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:54,600
because they got a degree in
education.
909
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:58,800
It doesn't just follow.
A lot of it is just made in the
910
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:00,520
classroom.
A lot of it is made by good
911
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:06,200
mentors and and from the teacher
being willing to be a student
912
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:08,880
for the rest of their lives.
If the teacher is not learning,
913
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:12,200
the students are not learning
and that's a major, major best
914
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:14,720
practice for teachers.
There's also the expense to
915
00:46:14,720 --> 00:46:16,280
parents.
Private schools.
916
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,560
My kids would not be able to
attend private school if I
917
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:19,880
didn't teach at a private
school.
918
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:23,480
It's just it's, it's, it's
expensive.
919
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:26,160
Yeah, I think about that and
it's like, man, if you're in a
920
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:29,560
position where you're 2 girls.
Where you have 5 girls.
921
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:33,760
Yeah, I went for Thank Goodness,
boys, where it's like if you're
922
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:35,480
in a position where you're
picking between public school,
923
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:38,240
private school and home school,
that's a good place to be
924
00:46:38,240 --> 00:46:40,480
because not everyone has that
option.
925
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,400
And we're my family.
We've got four boys.
926
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:45,480
We're at a crossroads.
We can support two boys at a
927
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:47,720
private school.
We can't really support more.
928
00:46:47,720 --> 00:46:52,360
So it's it's like, oh, it's
really a tough, a tough thing.
929
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:54,480
And you think about like, yeah,
that is a that is a sacrifice
930
00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:57,120
and it is expensive and we've
had a great experience, but.
931
00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:00,280
That maybe, maybe there's
employment opportunities for
932
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,480
Leanne in the future with her
education background.
933
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:06,480
And that's and so any remember
what we said bad about
934
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:08,160
northward.
Can you edit that out is that in
935
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:12,280
case this goes out?
Just kidding, but yeah, that
936
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:14,880
that I think that's a man that
that's a tough one where
937
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:17,880
sometimes homeschooling is more
of an option because you can do,
938
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:21,080
it's still not nothing, but you
can do that for less expensive
939
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:23,120
and.
Then just two other things that
940
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,600
sometimes at a private Christian
School you have some of these
941
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:29,800
kind of draconian rules that
have lasted in handbook.
942
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,920
Sometimes it's dress code thing,
sometimes it's, it's other types
943
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:36,760
of rules and handbook policies
that have stayed around.
944
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:39,720
I do have to say, I think I
think Northwood has done a good
945
00:47:39,720 --> 00:47:42,080
job of walking that line between
having them.
946
00:47:42,240 --> 00:47:44,560
You know, you, you have to have
standards.
947
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:47,440
It's that, it's that broken
window principle.
948
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:51,480
If you, if you slip on some
standards, a lot of behavior
949
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:55,720
issues come from students
recognizing, oh, these policies
950
00:47:55,720 --> 00:47:58,960
aren't being policed.
And so it, it's, it's a very
951
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,600
slippery slope.
And so you really do have to set
952
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,960
a hard line somewhere.
Sometimes it's difficult to
953
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:08,280
decide where that is.
I will say our draconian cell
954
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:12,040
phone policies are being adopted
by the state of South Carolina.
955
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:16,600
By law, every every educational
institution is seeing the
956
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:20,160
benefit of getting phones out of
the hands of students during
957
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:22,320
instructional time.
That's something private schools
958
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:24,160
have been on top of for a long.
Time.
959
00:48:25,240 --> 00:48:27,560
That seems like a very common
sense thing because I think we
960
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:30,280
were watching the news story and
my kids or hearing something.
961
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:32,400
My kids are like, wait, what?
How?
962
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,680
How do they have phones?
Like, well, not all the schools
963
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:37,360
have rules like like you do.
So that was one of the big
964
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:39,640
battles that my wife fought when
she was teaching general
965
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,440
population is you have 35
students in a classroom.
966
00:48:42,720 --> 00:48:46,000
Half of them have earbuds in and
the other half were kind of
967
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:48,000
texting each other on the side.
And like you're trying to,
968
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,760
you're trying to give
instruction and then have them
969
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:53,400
work in small groups and then
work with a group yourself and
970
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,880
and it's phones are everywhere.
You see the viral videos of like
971
00:48:57,120 --> 00:49:00,040
the like teacher, like grabbing
it and just throwing it and of
972
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,760
course now they're fired.
But you can understand why
973
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:04,960
they're frustrated.
Like they're given all they
974
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:08,360
have, they're trying to
communicate, and they're just
975
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,880
not getting any respect or any
type of interaction.
976
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:14,120
Well, and we're now we're on the
cusp of all of the studies, like
977
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:17,040
longitudinal studies that are
being done about the effects of
978
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:20,480
social media and cell phones,
especially on tweens and teens.
979
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:24,040
Like we're it now that the data
is, it's kind of, it's been the
980
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:28,160
Wild West for the past 20 years.
We're but now the data is
981
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:32,600
catching up and people are not
able to ignore the kind of
982
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:35,520
mental health crisis that that
the proliferation of social
983
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:40,960
media has had on students and
the impact and lost educational
984
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:44,000
time from having cell phones in
classrooms.
985
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:46,880
Like so all the data is now
catching up and we're going, oh,
986
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:50,960
no, we better regulate this.
So, so our our private Christian
987
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:54,040
School cell phone policies are
now catching statewide.
988
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:55,400
Yeah.
It's probably like smoking or
989
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:57,040
something.
It's like we all do it and now,
990
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:59,440
like the data is overwhelming
where it's like, actually,
991
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:01,600
that's Speaking of draconian
rules.
992
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:06,200
I was born in the 90s but I went
to a private school in Kentucky
993
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:09,480
when I was in 3rd or 4th grade,
so.
994
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:11,280
You went to school in the 70s,
basically.
995
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:15,600
Yeah, exactly, I got.
So y'all went from Memphis to
996
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:16,440
Kentucky?
Yeah.
997
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:20,200
So my dad, he like did his
fellowship for a couple years
998
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:21,520
somewhere.
So we had to like move while he
999
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:25,520
was doing some of his training.
And so he worked at University
1000
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:26,880
of Kentucky for like two or
three.
1001
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:28,240
And then we went back to
Memphis.
1002
00:50:28,240 --> 00:50:30,920
I got you and when I was like in
second or third grade or
1003
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,880
something I got disappointed.
I got spanked by the principal
1004
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:36,760
at a school as like 1/3.
Grader, I've been I've been
1005
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:43,280
spanked at at school twice.
Once was by a female junior high
1006
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:46,800
principal.
And I will tell you I I could
1007
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:51,040
give you my innocence in both of
these cases, it did not hurt.
1008
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:53,640
I felt I was embarrassed for
her.
1009
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:56,920
You're like, you're like, lady,
you got to give a little more
1010
00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:58,320
than that name.
Here, I don't know if she it was
1011
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:01,760
like Miss Morgan.
I'm like, if you're if you're
1012
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:03,920
spanking people, it's got to be
better bring that stuff.
1013
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:05,840
It wasn't.
Maybe she knew that I was
1014
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:12,760
innocent and that's why science
teacher had one of the students
1015
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:16,480
marking tardies and in science
the nerd.
1016
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:18,400
That I I was stuck.
He is so passionate about it.
1017
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:19,600
I love it.
It's like sticking with.
1018
00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:20,640
Me.
He's like, come on, the.
1019
00:51:20,720 --> 00:51:24,640
Nerd that I am like I put my
stuff down I go up and I talk to
1020
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:29,200
Mr. Bird about science like I'm
talking to him about classroom
1021
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:32,040
stuff and then he'll be like OK
we're about to start and I go
1022
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:35,400
sit down.
So unbeknownst to me, I've got
1023
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:37,880
like 5 tardies on the books
because.
1024
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:40,400
Someone's been joining me to
her, There's like, you're not in
1025
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:42,680
your desk, right?
Yeah, even though I was there.
1026
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:47,320
So anyways, but then I got
another paddling by a coach
1027
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:50,040
that'll I'll say that one left
the whole sting, Yeah.
1028
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:52,160
That'll leave the.
One that left the sting again.
1029
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:54,920
I'll I was innocent in that case
too.
1030
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:56,600
Of course you didn't know Wrong,
no?
1031
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:59,040
No, no, no.
There are things I probably did.
1032
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:01,040
There are things I did that I
probably should have gotten a
1033
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:02,200
paddling.
For so it was just catching
1034
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:03,760
those two.
Were not those two were not but
1035
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:05,680
I.
Just caught that you were
1036
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:07,520
embarrassed for.
Like you did you apologize to?
1037
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:10,640
I'm sorry, that was not good.
Oh man.
1038
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:14,880
Yeah, so I I went to the school
that my dad taught at in from
1039
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:18,360
kindergarten to 8th grade and he
taught 3rd and 4th grade.
1040
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:23,040
And when I got in trouble at
that school, he got called to
1041
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:23,280
the.
Office.
1042
00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:25,320
Oh man.
And so I think he paddled me
1043
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,240
once in the office.
I think the principal might have
1044
00:52:27,240 --> 00:52:30,360
done it one time too.
But yeah, that was that was a
1045
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:32,360
different time.
Different time, yeah.
1046
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:34,560
Yeah.
So real quick, while we're
1047
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:39,600
wrapping up, I did have this
question for you about so I've
1048
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,800
I've heard, and I'm sure you're
familiar, but just in case, I
1049
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:44,480
don't want to, you know, play
something chump.
1050
00:52:44,480 --> 00:52:49,000
But the trivia model of learning
that says like younger,
1051
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:52,800
basically elementary grammar
stage of learning sponges that
1052
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:54,200
kind of memorize a whole lot of
stuff.
1053
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:59,160
Middle school logic phase where
they are like putting rules and
1054
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:02,040
stuff together.
Then high school's the rhetoric
1055
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:05,120
phase where they're like
learning how to defend and
1056
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:09,760
exchange ideas and stuff.
I think that's generally makes
1057
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:12,880
sense.
Was that any part of your
1058
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:15,400
teaching?
Is that something that genuinely
1059
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:19,120
they try that you've seen people
try to follow or is that kind of
1060
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:22,600
all new or?
I don't think that we have a
1061
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:27,280
conscious effort to to be in
that.
1062
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:32,280
Now there are best practices
that work with different
1063
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:34,800
developmental stages.
And so there definitely are
1064
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:38,880
developmental stages where we
want to use a certain type of
1065
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:42,360
questioning more with this
developmental stage than this
1066
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:45,120
one.
So it's so for example, I mean,
1067
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,320
my, my last six years of
teaching is just all middle
1068
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:51,800
schools, all 7th grade and 7th
grade is it is an interesting
1069
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:55,920
time because it's, they're,
they're, they're really starting
1070
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:58,320
to have the possibility of
abstract thinking.
1071
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:01,840
Prior to that, there's really
not much of that going on it.
1072
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:04,400
They're just kind of dipping
their toes into abstract
1073
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:07,400
thinking.
And so if you tell a 7th grader
1074
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:11,560
like, OK, we're going to write a
research paper, it doesn't
1075
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:15,840
really make sense to them.
They focus more on, wait, I have
1076
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:18,960
to have these, this note card is
supposed to have this stuff on
1077
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:20,160
it.
And the source card is supposed
1078
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:23,760
to have this stuff on it.
They're, they're not building
1079
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:27,680
this composite model in their
minds of what the research paper
1080
00:54:27,680 --> 00:54:29,760
is supposed to do.
They're still pretty, pretty
1081
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:32,920
task oriented.
Now you get some that are, that
1082
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:35,240
are moving into that abstract
thought.
1083
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:38,680
But having that kind of
understanding of where the
1084
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:42,480
different developmental stages
are for, for learning does
1085
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:44,600
change your practice.
And so like in 7th grade, I
1086
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:46,440
would, I didn't do a research
paper.
1087
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:49,800
There were three different
research assignments that
1088
00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:53,280
scaffolded to, to meet those
skills that they were going to
1089
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:55,520
need when they go on to write a
research paper.
1090
00:54:56,480 --> 00:55:02,160
But it, it definitely makes a
difference where the students
1091
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:07,120
are and, and at what level
they're, they are able to think
1092
00:55:07,120 --> 00:55:09,960
abstractly before you start
working in some of those
1093
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:11,560
concepts.
And so I definitely think that
1094
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:16,280
there is a, there's a, a major
role for looking carefully at
1095
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:21,240
developmental stages and then
creating appropriate assignments
1096
00:55:21,240 --> 00:55:25,480
and interactions based on those.
There's a great book called
1097
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:29,400
Nurture that is Christian.
And it's a series of essays,
1098
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:34,600
kind of doctoral style
dissertations on that very
1099
00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:38,560
issue, developmental psychology
and children, developmental
1100
00:55:38,720 --> 00:55:41,400
stages and learning.
But it's done in a, in a
1101
00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:44,800
Christian worldview, and it's a,
it's a great resource for that
1102
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:47,240
kind of topic.
Can I ask a follow up with that?
1103
00:55:47,240 --> 00:55:52,560
I'm curious because I always was
kind of salty at my parents
1104
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:57,000
because I started school like my
birthday was at the cut off.
1105
00:55:57,240 --> 00:55:58,680
I was always the youngest in my
class.
1106
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:00,920
Like I had people getting their
driver's license before like
1107
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:03,200
they were turning 16.
I had, I was like just turning
1108
00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:04,280
14.
It was like a big gap.
1109
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:07,280
And I mean, purely from a sports
perspective, I was like, man, I
1110
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:09,400
could have another year of being
great.
1111
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:11,840
I'd be older.
But you know, what's the
1112
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:13,400
thinking like in the sports
world?
1113
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:15,760
It's like, man, you hold your
kid back as far as much as you
1114
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:18,200
can.
And that is directly correlated
1115
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:19,360
to what?
So they're going to play sports
1116
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:20,560
in college.
If they're if they got a, if
1117
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:22,840
they're the oldest one in their
class, it goes up like 3
1118
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:25,720
hundredfold.
Like it's like, it's amazing the
1119
00:56:25,720 --> 00:56:27,240
difference.
I don't know about cognition,
1120
00:56:27,240 --> 00:56:28,400
that kind of thing.
If it's better.
1121
00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:32,040
I know each child is different,
but you know, I don't know if
1122
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:33,640
there's any what.
Was the what was the question?
1123
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Yeah.
Does that make a difference at
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all as far as like?
Do you see trends with age?
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So in it is very child specific.
Generally you can have students
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that are very well academically
prepared, even if they're on
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that younger, that younger side
of their class, they can be
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extremely academically prepared,
OK with the rigor, OK with the
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00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:00,240
work level.
The, the thing that is generally
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00:57:00,240 --> 00:57:02,680
lagging behind is the emotional
maturity.
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00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:06,160
And so we, we, you kind of watch
those students, if they are
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really on the younger side,
generally, if they have, if
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they've made the cut, they're
generally academically pretty
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00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:16,000
solid and able to handle the
academic load.
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00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:19,800
But you have to, you have to
nurture those kids just a little
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00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:23,880
bit differently because usually
the, the social and emotional
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part is, is lagging behind the
rest of their peers.
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Because you have some peers that
are like 2 years older than
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them, potentially in that are
almost two years older than them
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in that same kind of grouping of
students.
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And so a lot of times it's it's
looking out for those ones
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because social emotional lags
behind academic a lot of times.
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That explains my emotional and
social problem.
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00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:48,960
It all makes sense.
But you're super smart.
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00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:51,840
What?
What you got something?
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00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:54,280
What else is on your mind,
Jonathan, or things you want to
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00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:59,960
add?
How about a joke that Michael's
1148
00:57:59,960 --> 00:58:02,160
going to maybe appreciate?
Yeah, let's hear, let's.
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00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:05,840
I'm going to end on a joke.
So why did the two average kids
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00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:07,480
get sent to the principal's
office?
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00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:09,520
Oh, I know this I.
Already know it I.
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00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:11,720
Know this I already know.
It does it start with an M?
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00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:13,440
Yes.
OK, I don't know a lot about
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00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:16,040
math, but it seems like there's
a mean mean.
1155
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:18,720
They yeah, they were being mean.
That's good.
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00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:20,000
That's good, that's great.
That's.
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00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:21,760
Great.
It doesn't make sense if you, if
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you come from an ELA background,
you have to look that up and I
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00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:26,040
will.
I'm just going to be completely
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00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:30,200
honest with you.
I googled average versus mean
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00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:33,680
today so that I could edit that
joke a little bit so that there
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were two averages, because if
it's just one average, it's not
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00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:37,720
going to work.
It's good.
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00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:41,200
It's good.
What a great, what a great way
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00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:45,680
to to wrap things up again, the
guest should, should close us
1166
00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:48,160
out.
We we say, we look at the camera
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00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:50,520
intensely.
And say that's our intensity.
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That's our take.
Oh.
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Love it, love it.
Thanks for listening to Take
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Two.
Find us wherever you find
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00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:02,200
podcasts and on YouTube for
those who want to watch our
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video cast.
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Jonathan Halfling, human.
I already, I'm already angry.
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I already don't like this
conversation.
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Elf half elf.
I would generally would go elf,
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Elf.
That's going to be in the in the
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fantasy realm.
That's generally the direction I
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go.
Oh my goodness.
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And.
What?
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What class?
It's got to be sneaky.
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Sneaky.
So an elf rogue?
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Yeah.
So you're not going to be a
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tank?
Oh no.
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OK 'cause you were a tank in in
Lao.
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Once Upon a time with a druid
character.
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OK, all right.
Sweet.
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So rogue what?
What type of weapon?
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So I just want to say we're
already establishing that I'm
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very cool.
Like we've started out with
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that.
Like that's the baseline.
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Right, right.
Yeah.
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Well a bow and arrow is the the
most natural.
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Like maybe a little poison
dagger or something like that.
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Yeah, wow, that's very cool.
So I have with me here a switch
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of, Oh no, D&D dice, you know
what I'm saying?
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So that's good.
So for those who don't know, and
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that's maybe what's that?
I don't.
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Know.
Tell me more.
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Yeah.
What is this?
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There are there are a group of
guys at our church who have
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decided to make to give D and DA
roll of the dice.
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So we're going to roll the dice
on.
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Rewind a childhood, tell our
parents this when we were kids,
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and just think about what they
would say.
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Yeah, well, it's it's still
there because Jill was a little
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bit concerned.
I'm like, it's not what we heard
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in the 80s growing up 90s.
It's not like it's mass suicide.
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And Satanic Panic.
Satanic actively, yeah, I I've
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actually, I've never, I've only
heard of dungeon Dragons like in
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movies like and like you said,
it's not with the cool kids
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playing it.
So that that's my, my
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understanding is either you're
actively worshiping Satan or all
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your friends are hanging out And
so you're you didn't get an
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about lightning.
Bolt, lightning bolt.
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That's yeah, there's that.
There's the there's the
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role-playing game and then
there's the what is it?
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The when you go out and you live
play it.
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You.
You want me to say the word?
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Lark live action role.
Playing Yeah, Larping.
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Yeah.
And so the, you know, I don't, I
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don't have any plans doing that.
OK, OK, maybe you do.
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I mean, let's just see what
happens, close it down right
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away.
Yeah, wow.
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So it's really cool.
I mean, if you But if you don't,
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I will say this.
If you don't enjoy movies at
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all, or any narrative books at
all, then you're probably not
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going to enjoy a game that
requires you to use your
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imagination a little bit.
I am not, I don't, I don't know
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when all the words, elves,
druids, fairies, bells, sorcery,
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it's not, not my thing.
But, you know, I respect,
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respect it.
I hope it's a great time.
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I I you know, I didn't talk so
much Dungeons and Dragons.
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If I did, I would have let
Jonathan walk into that house
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with the cats, which he almost
did.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
It just depends.
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I gave him the.
Wrong.
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It was dicey for a minute.
I had a, I'm not going to say
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who, but someone gave me the
wrong address for this secret
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recording location.
And yeah, there was a family
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just chilling, watching TV with
cats on the couch, and I almost
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made it into that house.
What?
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What?
No.
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What would be more terrifying?
You walk in.
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Me and Michael are just hanging
out with some cats watching TV.
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So my my first thought was I
didn't know there'd be cats
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involved.
And I'm just going to tell you
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this is probably going to
increase my coolness level even
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a little bit more.
I was a little bit excited.
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I was like, oh, I did.
I there's cats now.
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And I'm I'm a cat fan.
If if we had to, I know cereal
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has been a topic on here before,
but if we went cats versus dogs
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as another, you know, hot take,
you know, I'm firmly team cat.
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Firmly keen.
You're you're keen, you're team
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dog.
I'm team dog.
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But listen, I don't like cats,
but cats always like me.
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I, I just sit down.
I ignore them and they come up
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to me and I'll pet them.
I'm fine, you know, putting the
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creation order, you know, to
subdue creation like I'm AI am a
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human, I'm the pinnacle.
Yes, you can come to me and I
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will, you know, scratch your
ears and then you go go do what
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you want to do.
So they always come to me and
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and I'm fine with that.
We had a cat, an outside cat
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growing up.
We would leave food for and I
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would pet it.
AKA not a cat person.
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We grew up with outside cats.
We just did.
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Yeah.
You guys have cats?
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No, we, we used to, used to,
yeah, one of our children is
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allergic now and I'm a little
bit salty about it.
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I've, I've tried to push for one
of the naked cats that doesn't
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have hair because I think that
that would alleviate the, the
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allergy concerns.
Wife has not bought into that
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idea yet.
Oh man, what a way to start the
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podcast.
Cats, Dungeons and Dragons,
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Anything else we're missing?
Well, I was just going to say,
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you know, whether you send your
kids to public school or private
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school or home school, it's a
roll the dice.
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You know what I'm saying?
So but don't don't.
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OK, there.
How to get that dad joke in
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there?
That's great.
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Love it.
Bye.
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You know, this is the the role
of our guest, whether they like
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it or not.
You have to look the camera dead
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in the eye and you're going to
say, let's take it to the next
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level.
Well, let's take it to the next
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level.
Yeah.
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From the hearts of the Low
Country in South Carolina.
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It's the Take Two podcast where
we take theology to the next
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level.
So here's a joke.
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Let's do it.
Why was Harry Potter sent to the
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principal's office now?
I already know we've we've
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already rang the alarm bells of
Dungeons and Dragons, and now
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we're I just, I figured out all
of the things the first time on.
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So if you never asked me back,
I've already hit all the things.
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That's right.
So.
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Why was Harry Potter sent to the
principal's office?
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Oh man.
I want, I want in my mind is I
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want to sit and try to figure it
out.
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I know and I want to watch you
sit and.
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Try to but I don't.
I I was thinking like the
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mentors or detentions or
something like that.
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I know so little about Harry
Potter that I can't make a good
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guess.
Quit.
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So here's what it is.
It's because he was cursing in
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class.
Nice.
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Love it.
That's a great joke to Michael
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Burr.
Which one of them though?
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Was it one of the three
unforgivable characters?
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OK.
Well, that that's a good way to
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open it up because this podcast
is all about education, 'cause
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we're with the great educator,
Mr. White.
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Honestly, there never had a
thought in our mind that he'd be
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on the podcast until Principal
White.
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Now we're like, we gotta have.
Him on the podcast.
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That was the big time.
When I was a lowly teacher,
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there was no chance.
There was no chance.
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Just kidding.
So what did you know?
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You wanted to be a teacher, and
I'm assuming that your father
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had played some role in that
decision.
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So there's a lot of teaching in
my family.
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My both my parents, mom and dad
are long time teachers.
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And to that def I grew up in it
like I grew up in school.
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So I was there early, that
school that my dad taught at, I
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was there late.
And so I just it was kind of
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kind of felt like home between
the school and the church.
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Like these are like places that
I just was raised in, but I, I
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would say I didn't really know.
Here's the honest truth.
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I didn't know that I wanted to
be a teacher until I got into a
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classroom and started doing this
and started seeing some
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connections because I didn't
have, I don't have your
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traditional maybe route to the
classroom.
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So I, I did fall in love with
literature in high school.
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And so I was like, I don't know
what I'm going to do with this,
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but I want to be around
literature.
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And so I just went to be an
English major in college and was
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just insufferable for a number
of years.
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Michael was around for those
years.
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If you don't.
Have much longer.
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Hair Michael was a youth pastor
and a mentor, has been a mentor
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for me for a long time.
And so he he lived through some
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of the insufferable English
major years.
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And then towards the end of
college, I ended up working at a
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Christian bookstore.
One of the managers that came in
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had come out of education,
worked at this Christian
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bookstore, which shall remain
nameless for about a year and
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was like, I got to go back.
I got to get out of this place.
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And so he went to be the
headmaster at a school in Mount
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Pleasant.
And he just, we had developed a
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relationship.
He knew I was graduating with an
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English degree.
And he said, you know, we're
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always looking for male teachers
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school.
Do you want to, you know, try
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teaching?
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said, if you graduate and you
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call.
And I graduated, and I looked
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around and I looked at all of
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opportunities for recently
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gave him a call.
You don't want to do Starbucks.
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Yeah, Starbucks wasn't going to
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Of course, I always have a dream
of writing, which is every
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English majors, you know, secret
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But I got in front of 9th and
10th graders teaching world
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literature and I and you know,
not I didn't come with the
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education degree, but that
particular principle I'll just
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name drop.
His name is Joe Holsey.
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He's still in education today.
He became just a really
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significant mentor in kind of
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to run a classroom and to teach
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And so I, I learned from him and
it was part time the first year
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and then full time the next year
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That's, that's where I am.
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That's what I was going to ask.
So 14 years teaching went, you
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got your masters and then
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if it's last year or two,
whenever you moved up to
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principal middle school.
So you've kind of seen education
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from all these different vantage
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perspective 'cause I think, you
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different, different questions
we'll ask.
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people have really strong
opinions on things like public
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school or home school or private
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And it's hard to navigate.
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like, it's definitely, if you
choose something else, it's not
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good.
And I'm interested to hear, you
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know, coming from the private
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school teaching private school,
but you're married to someone
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teachers in the public school
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Schools and so I get, I get to
have both of those perspectives
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and, and my wife Kenya and I
we've, we've had these
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conversations about public
versus private and then maybe
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we'll get into a little bit of
that later.
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To start off though, talking
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trivia question do you know how
public schools got started in
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this country?
I think it was with Dewey was in
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the Dewey Decimal System that
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Did he?
So he, he had a yeah, he really
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influenced the way that school
was done and and really, we
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could probably say secularized
the the public school.
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System for For anyone who thinks
critically about this issue,
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probably a good guy for some
people, yeah.
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If you are currently employed by
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he's probably a good guy.
Yeah, and the name gets dropped
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a lot.
But interestingly, the public
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education in this country starts
with Puritans.
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The Puritans were I I I had to
look this up because I thought
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it was just an interesting fact.
They passed in 1647 this law in
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Massachusetts.
It's called the old Diluter
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Satan Law.
I like it already.
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Tell me more, the old.
Diluter Satan law.
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And so it starts off this way,
it being 1 chief project of that
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old deluder Satan to keep men
from the knowledge of the
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scriptures as in former times,
keeping them in an unknown
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tongue.
So that in these later times by
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persuading from the use of
tongues that so at least the
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true sense and meaning of the
original might be clouded with
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false glosses of Saint seeming
deceivers.
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That's just a big punch at the
Papist.
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You you hear that he's saying
like that the scriptures have
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been kept in a in a foreign
tongue and not understandable
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and glossed in ways that are not
true to the original text.
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I said knowing all of that and
that learning may not be buried
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in the graves of our forefathers
in church in Commonwealth.
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He says it is therefore ordered
by this court and authority.
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Township that has fifty
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families, as soon as you hit
fifty families, as soon as the
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Lord actually has increased you
to the 50 households, they're
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going to appoint someone in
their town to teach children.
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And so they're starting this as
a formalized structure, the
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Puritans.
And really their goal in in
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starting this kind of mandatory
education process is because
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they want people to be able to
read the Bible.
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That is the number one priority
for the Puritans as they're
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starting formalized education.
And then they kind of kick it
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up.
If you have 100 households or
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100 families, then there's
another kind of school that you
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open up and the constituents of
that town are kind of paying
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into the coffer to support the
schoolmaster, the school teacher
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and the needs of that school.
Well, back to the Puritans.
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That's good.
And is it the church that's
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doing this or the government, or
were they kind of the same thing
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for the Puritans?
I'm not sure for the.
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Puritans, they, they held those
things pretty close together.
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And that's that that's really
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good.
A lot different, different.
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It's come a long way.
We'll we'll say that I'm sure
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yeah.
All this enlightenment that mid
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1800s nineteen 100.
Sure, things shifted a little
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bit, but I like getting back,
back to the roots that it's, you
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know, a Christian ideal.
Or scripture, you know, literacy
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in in this arena is a very
judeo-christian ideal because
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again, it comes back to the
people of the book, right?
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There are people that that have
access to this revelation from
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God and we need them to be able
to read it.
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We need them to be able to study
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I love it because when I think
of education, I think in the
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Bible, I just think of like
Deuteronomy 6 and it's like
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backed into Jewish upbringing
and all this stuff.
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So I like, I like, I like all of
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That's a good kind of set the
baseline for for any anything
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else you got Michael on like
background with Jonathan that we
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want to touch and kind of
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Well, kind of going back, how
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much would you say that you are?
Because, well, maybe a lot of
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our listeners don't know, but
some of them maybe do.
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When your dad's in the
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church, and I've seen some clips
of him in another classroom,
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it's very extroverted.
I guess I could say how much of
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that has bled over to your
teaching?
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I, I know you're, everyone's
different and I remember I'll,
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I'll, I'm going to ask a
question while saying something,
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then I'll turn it over to you.
I remember when I was teaching
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in the Navy and I was, someone
said in there like, well, I just
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thought that you were going to
do this, this and this because
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that's how I do it.
I'm like, that's not, that's not
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necessarily me.
I'm not going to do things, you
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know, I'm not going to have the
same type of personality that
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you have.
So that's a long way of asking,
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you know, kind of how, how would
you compare yours and your dad's
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teaching styles?
So if you know Jack White as a
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teacher, you know that he's an
emphatic teacher.
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He's charismatic in the
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And if you, if I would say this,
if you know me personally, but
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you haven't seen me in the
classroom, it's you might be a
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little surprised by seeing me in
the classroom because I do, I do
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get energetic and I there, there
are certain things, OK.
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So as you, you know, as you
teach for a long time, you get
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known for certain things.
There are certain, I don't know,
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phrases that different teachers
have that happen over and over
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again.
And I'm just different little
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idiosyncrasies that you become
known for.
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And the classrooms around my
classroom knew some of my
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idiosyncrasies because they were
they were really loud.
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So like early on in the year
when we're doing grammar in 7th
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grade, we talked about the four
types of sentences.
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And I mean, it's an exclamatory
sentence, right?
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Like we're not going to, we're
not going to be quiet if it's an
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exclamatory sentence.
And so the classrooms around me
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just kind of got used to there
was going to be some yelling and
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everything was OK.
Like it wasn't like nobody was
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getting hurt, but like there was
going to be some yelling.
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So yeah, that's it's.
So some of that has bled over,
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probably.
Yeah, for sure.
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That's good.
That's good.
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Great.
Are we can we sign up for like
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spots?
Can I audit, can I audit one of
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your classes?
I would love to.
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Well, here's the here's the
challenging thing is I'm not in
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the classroom.
That's right.
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You're so so as yeah.
So now as the assistant
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principal for middle school, I I
have a different role and it's
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and I don't get that same kind
of interaction.
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Do you miss it some?
What's that?
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Do you miss it some?
Oh, yeah, for sure.
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Yeah.
It's it's a different now.
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I still am.
I'm still finding ways to
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interact with students and build
those relationships.
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But it's just not the same when
like, you know, when you have
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those students in the classroom
day after day after day, you
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establish the rhythms and
relationships and it's just,
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it's just a different thing.
And so now my role is, is
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different than it was when I was
in the classroom.
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And then part of that I miss.
Now I still get to scratch that
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It's sometimes, right.
So I get to do Sunday school
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classes at our church.
Sometimes I'll speak in Chapel
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and also get a chance to present
at like SKISA conferences.
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SKISA is the kind of governing
body, South Carolina Independent
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School Association.
And and so we have yearly
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conferences.
And I just last weekend got to
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go in and present, you know,
some strategies for teaching
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research in the middle school
classroom, which was riveting,
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if I do say so.
Yeah, and we should say this
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because I'm going to butcher it,
but you have like some special
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designation, like a residency or
like you're an expert.
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Like, you know what I'm saying?
Like you've got some.
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Say say more of those master
teacher I like.
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I don't know what it's called,
but.
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Yeah, I like expert, I like you
could just say artist in
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residence.
No, that, that's not a real
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thing.
So yeah, the SKISA master
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teacher as a designation that
we, you kind of work towards
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over the course of a year,
develop a portfolio and and
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video yourself teaching and send
that off to SKISA and they
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confer or don't confer master
teacher status.
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Now, I happen to be aware of the
school with where you taught and
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where you are a principal, and
I'm also aware that the high
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school assistant principal
principals and then teaches a
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section or two of mathematics.
Is there a time in the future
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where you will go back and teach
a section or two of English?
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Or does that make sense because
it's like you need to do 3 or
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none and three is probably too
much.
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Yeah.
So the way the English classes
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run in the middle school, I
would probably need to teach 3
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to keep them all together.
Now, I mean there is there are
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team teaching possibilities and
you can do some of that Co
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planning to make sure that
they're that the classes are
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tracking together.
It does complicate it.
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It does vary the experience of
the students from classroom to
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classroom.
But what I have found this year
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and maybe at some point in the
future, I may try to get back in
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the classroom.
But what I have found this year
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is that the role that I have now
is just it's, it's really hard.
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It would be very difficult to,
to be able to schedule like, OK,
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so this is class time because
there are things that come up at
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all times during the school day.
I would, if I were in a
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classroom, I would probably be
pulled out of that classroom by
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some event or something that's
happening on campus two or three
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times a week minimum.
And so it would, it would, it
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would be a challenge.
And I'm actually a little upset
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right now because I missed a
prime opportunity.
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Jonathan, my kid, my second
grader, his teacher is Miss
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Gilberts.
I coach her kid.
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I see her husband at least
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And I was like, I should have
asked him just questions the
402
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spring.
I'm like I missed my
403
00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:55,440
opportunity.
Do you know how close those that
404
00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:57,480
they were?
I've just, I've heard stories
405
00:19:57,480 --> 00:20:00,240
but I don't really know.
But they were they were right
406
00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:04,880
next to each other so much that
I went to introduce myself to.
407
00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,520
John, not Jonathan's replacement
for teaching, but the the
408
00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:12,640
replacement for where he was
like his classroom because I
409
00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:16,440
think he's a, a history teacher.
And I went to introduce myself
410
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to him.
And Matt, I forgot his last
411
00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:24,680
Gilbert was like, he thought I
was messing around at first
412
00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:27,480
because it was so ingrained that
that was Jonathan over there,
413
00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:29,040
but it wasn't Jonathan anymore.
So.
414
00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:30,760
No, no longer.
That was a that was.
415
00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:33,000
A missed opportunity.
Yeah, you really did because he,
416
00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:37,640
yeah, he teaching next to each
other for the last like 7 years.
417
00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,120
We have found many opportunities
to poke at each other.
418
00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:43,480
So if you were sitting here, I
know there are things I would
419
00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:46,600
even, I would even like tell
students like so they would, you
420
00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:49,000
know, there's a certain class
that would come to my classroom
421
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,320
for English and the next class
would be Mr. Gilbert's.
422
00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:53,320
And I would just try to like
front load.
423
00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,160
Like I'm like, hey, if you want
to try to get class off the
424
00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:58,880
rails in Mr. Gilbert's
classroom, I was like, here's
425
00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:00,400
today, here's what it's going to
be.
426
00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:04,800
Somebody's going to just quote
this one verse from Ecclesiastes
427
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:09,000
and just just lob it, just lob
it out there and you're going to
428
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:13,480
see something happen.
He's, he's either going to crush
429
00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:18,160
that internal desire to just
expound on Ecclesiastes, or
430
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:22,160
he's, he's going to go ahead and
blow 20 minutes talking about
431
00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,160
vanity.
Vanity.
432
00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:25,440
Oh, that's great.
Yeah, man.
433
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:28,360
Well, lesson learned next time.
Next time I'll ask him.
434
00:21:28,360 --> 00:21:30,400
But his kids a good, good
goalie.
435
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:32,600
Our soccer team we're destroying
at North Lake.
436
00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:35,200
We're winning like 5/8 to 1/8 to
0.
437
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:37,240
Wow, you know that's what.
It's like.
438
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:38,800
About pedagogy, Yeah, yeah,
yeah.
439
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:42,040
Especially, especially at this
level, it's all about putting
440
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:43,280
up.
Well, you need to let those kids
441
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:44,320
know they're not gonna win
everything.
442
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:45,840
In life, yeah.
So doing a service.
443
00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:47,800
So.
You're crushing is teaching.
444
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:51,640
That to the other teams.
It's great, but so good we have
445
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:54,200
a good foundation good baseline
for I guess I think it's
446
00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:57,280
important your journey and then
you've like pursuit you've been
447
00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:00,640
very successful pursued this
master teacher your assistant
448
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,640
principal and so that this
perspective.
449
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:06,400
So I, I'll tell you where my, my
heads at, you know, thinking
450
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,280
about, you know, talk people
home school is the only way
451
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,920
because we, we don't want to let
our kids get indoctrinated by
452
00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:14,520
the state.
There's people on the other
453
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:17,400
side, you know, man, we, we
don't want to totally withdraw
454
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:19,440
from society.
This Benedict option.
455
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:22,560
Let's just insulate ourselves in
a bubble and we don't go to
456
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:23,680
school board meetings.
We don't care.
457
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:25,840
And no wonder public schools are
off the rails because all the
458
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:29,360
Christians said I'm out and
there's private school, this
459
00:22:29,360 --> 00:22:33,120
hybrid where you can get
Christian education, but it
460
00:22:33,120 --> 00:22:35,120
ain't cheap is that much?
Should we, you know, should we
461
00:22:35,120 --> 00:22:37,800
send our kids to public school
and solve the missions for
462
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:38,280
Christ?
I don't know.
463
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:42,800
There's a lot of, you know, pros
and cons Michael Mott is a a
464
00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,680
product of the public school.
Can't we all tell, tell I'm just
465
00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:46,600
kidding.
Great, great.
466
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:48,680
My wife, public school, she's a
public teacher of your wife.
467
00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:52,080
So I think we're all in
different spots.
468
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:55,000
And so I didn't really ask a
question, but there's a lot of
469
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:57,040
floating thoughts out there.
We want to latch on to something
470
00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:58,480
and try to talk through some of
this.
471
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:03,040
Well, when you talk about the
public versus private kind of
472
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:05,320
divide, I think, I think it can
be really divisive.
473
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:07,680
I think especially inside the
church there can be, I mean
474
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:11,720
there are really strong opinions
on it and someone.
475
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,240
At our Home group basically said
there's only one right answer,
476
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:18,720
home school.
Well, and, and to be fair, if
477
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:21,240
you look around at culture and
you kind of see the shift that's
478
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:24,920
happened since around the 50s,
as you, as you look at the death
479
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:29,200
of modernism in the birth of
postmodernism, the kind of
480
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:34,000
negation of, of the idea of
truth, you do kind of wonder,
481
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,880
well then, what's the basis for
a public education system?
482
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:41,560
If, if as a culture,
theoretically, we've kind of
483
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:46,600
ditched objective truth as a, as
a thing, where what's the
484
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:51,880
foundation that we have for, for
behavioral norms, academic norms
485
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:55,600
in the public school system so
that there are big thoughts.
486
00:23:56,560 --> 00:24:00,120
And I would say this first and
foremost, I I would never want
487
00:24:00,120 --> 00:24:04,000
to denigrate teachers in the
public school system who are
488
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:08,000
doing a good job because there
are a a lot of teachers and
489
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:09,800
there are a lot of Christian
teachers.
490
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,760
And they get vilified a lot,
like all these, these, you know,
491
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:14,720
teachers.
Yeah, I people talk bad about
492
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:15,080
them.
What?
493
00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:18,040
I mean, what do they mean to or
not that harshly, but I hear
494
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:19,960
that a lot.
My wife, maybe I'm sensitive to
495
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,640
my wife was a public teacher.
It's like, oh, you hear these
496
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:23,720
things and it's like, wow,
really kind of look down.
497
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:27,080
Sometimes and, and the Christian
teacher in the public school
498
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,880
system is walking a very fine
line.
499
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,640
I mean, it is a, it is a
difficult thing to be able to
500
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:39,640
manage the personal faith and
what that has to do with the,
501
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:44,120
the interaction with the public
in this setting where the rules
502
00:24:44,120 --> 00:24:48,360
have kind of been set up to, to
say we have to leave that at the
503
00:24:48,360 --> 00:24:49,760
door when you come in this
building.
504
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:53,240
We're not, we don't have that
capacity to talk about those
505
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:56,720
things.
But those teachers are, are
506
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,840
there are a lot of missionary
teachers and they are, they're
507
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:04,400
ministering in ways that the
teachers in the private schools
508
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:07,040
don't have access to.
They're ministering to a
509
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:10,120
population that private school
teachers don't have access to.
510
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:14,120
And so I would never want to to
denigrate what those teachers
511
00:25:14,120 --> 00:25:17,080
are doing because it is, it is
really difficult.
512
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:22,400
My wife Kenya, grew up in public
schools and she teaches there.
513
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:25,640
She she's taught in public
schools from kindergarten up
514
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:29,200
through high school.
And then, and I mean, and we
515
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,880
were talking like rookie teacher
of the year, like where she's,
516
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,800
she's an accolated teacher.
She's a fantastic rock star
517
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,120
teacher.
In fact, I have to say she's
518
00:25:36,120 --> 00:25:39,200
gone from kindergarten all the
way to college level.
519
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:43,320
She has taught everything in
that mix and done and done all
520
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:46,520
of it.
Well, she teaches at a public
521
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:50,400
school and she says I wouldn't
send my kids there.
522
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:53,120
And so she has that perspective.
Now.
523
00:25:53,360 --> 00:25:56,920
She's also there and she also
ministers and she's able to have
524
00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:00,040
relationships with these
students in a certain population
525
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:03,480
of students that she works with.
She is an absolute light.
526
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:07,600
And when they come with problems
or they come asking questions,
527
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:11,520
that's when she is able to to
actually minister in ways that
528
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:15,000
are kind of biblically based.
So what I hear you saying is
529
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,240
maybe instead of sending our
kids to be missionaries to
530
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:21,080
public schools, we send adult
teachers who love the Lord and
531
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:22,960
love these kids to be the
missionaries.
532
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,560
There is a need for missionary
teachers in the public school
533
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,840
system for sure.
And, and I think that's
534
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,680
something that we will have to
talk about.
535
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:36,280
The idea of missionary kids in a
public school is is cool.
536
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:42,360
I would tell you probably 1 out
of 1000 children is equipped for
537
00:26:42,360 --> 00:26:44,680
that work.
Yeah, I, I, I came across this
538
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:49,760
quote by Bodhi Bakkam that
basically said your kids are not
539
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,320
children, are not missionaries,
they're the mission field.
540
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:54,360
And I think that's, that's a
good perspective 'cause it
541
00:26:54,360 --> 00:26:56,440
covers both of that when you
think of your own children.
542
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:59,640
And then like we're saying,
Kenya, my, my wife would say the
543
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,080
similar thing.
It's pretty amazing.
544
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:04,920
I mean, you're spending so much
time with kids and kids latch on
545
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:06,840
to you and there's a lot of
people from a different
546
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,080
situation.
It's just like you're that
547
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:10,480
natural.
People just come to you.
548
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:13,680
It's like to have someone come
to you with problems.
549
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,280
It's like, wow, you can't.
Missionaries go places hoping
550
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:17,600
people will come to them.
I think people will just
551
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:18,920
naturally come to you.
That's pretty amazing.
552
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:24,160
It is, and especially as as
teachers manifest the fruit of
553
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:27,680
the Spirit in that secular
environment, it really does
554
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:31,040
speak volumes.
I mean, it it you stand out in
555
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:34,800
that environment if you are not
the one in the teachers break
556
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,840
room that's always griping about
these students, that the one
557
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,200
that is uplifting the students.
And this is what Kenya has
558
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:43,880
always been in whatever
schooling situation she's been
559
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,920
in.
She has been the one that is
560
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,880
like, I'm here for the kids.
Like we're going to we're going
561
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,960
to meet them where they are and
lift them up.
562
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:55,520
We're not going to sit here and
snipe at them and pick at them
563
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,160
and say all the problems that we
have with them.
564
00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:00,400
It's going to be OK, this is the
behavior.
565
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:01,920
Now let's move.
Let's move them up.
566
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,840
Like let's get around them and
move them up.
567
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,520
And that's how the conversation
has to be around students.
568
00:28:07,360 --> 00:28:11,640
Too often when teachers get
together it it just turns into a
569
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,600
gripe fest.
And that's, that's poisonous.
570
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,520
Yeah.
And I would say that's probably
571
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:20,920
not exclusive to public schools
because you're going to have
572
00:28:21,360 --> 00:28:24,960
private schools that have
different levels of teachers.
573
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:30,040
And, you know, Northwood is not
exclusive to you.
574
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:33,240
You don't have to be a Christian
to go there.
575
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:38,360
So I remember when I taught
there a couple of years, you
576
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,760
know, someone, someone was like,
well, you're teaching all
577
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,000
Christians.
I'm like, by far, I'm not
578
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,800
teaching all Christians.
So I, I viewed them as a mission
579
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:50,760
field as well, maybe not as hard
hit a mission field as a public
580
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,280
school, but it was still, there
was a need there.
581
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:57,440
And I think you do have some
teachers who stand out, who love
582
00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:02,440
the students more, who are
trying to model and build in and
583
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:05,280
you know, they're still going to
draw those students and some of
584
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:07,600
it's personality driven.
So you have some students drawn
585
00:29:07,600 --> 00:29:10,280
to different teachers you know
as well.
586
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,800
I think it's a really good kind
of launching point to talk
587
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:14,240
about.
All right.
588
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,840
So let's talk some some public
versus private.
589
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,440
It's interesting that you say
you feel like it's maybe maybe
590
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,160
less of a mission field than the
public school.
591
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,840
Well, I mean, it may not be as
dark a mission field.
592
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:30,480
I think it's probably every bit
of mission field maybe.
593
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:36,040
Well, I would say I could talk
about spiritual things in a
594
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:40,840
private school openly where I
couldn't necessarily in a public
595
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,520
school.
So that maybe even a better
596
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:45,680
opportunity.
And the populace is you're
597
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,840
coming from a different angle.
I'll tell you the number one
598
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,640
concern that I have for
Christian School students is
599
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,440
that they, they, they believe
that they are Christians because
600
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:57,680
they are culturally Christian.
And so I like, so in 14 years of
601
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:03,240
Christian School education,
being in the classroom and now
602
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:05,400
seeing it from the
administrative standpoint, I
603
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:08,440
even, I mean, I, even, I, I
collected data and it's self
604
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,640
reported at the last school that
I was at before Northwood, I
605
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:15,360
collected data from students.
And it was, it was alarming to
606
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:20,680
look at the numbers of students
in a Christian School
607
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:24,680
environment.
Who would you know on a scale of
608
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:30,320
one to five, you know, how
confident are you that you are
609
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:33,840
saved?
And to have even 40% of the
610
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:37,080
students in a Bible class that I
was teaching.
611
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:41,280
By the way, I taught high school
English for six years at this
612
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:44,600
previous school and then I went
full Bible for two years.
613
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,200
Bible and Chapel were the only
things that I taught all of the
614
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:50,080
high school Bible and then
coordinating the chapels.
615
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,560
And so I, that's when I, that's
when I'll tell you that two
616
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:56,200
years of teaching Bible to
Christian School students
617
00:30:56,760 --> 00:31:01,480
changed my whole perspective of
ministry in Christian schools,
618
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:05,240
because I think so many people
look at a Christian School and
619
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:07,320
they go, man, that's just the
dream.
620
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,600
Like everybody there is, say all
these churched families and
621
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:12,440
there must be no behavior
problems.
622
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:16,760
And that is simply not the case.
We, we have a lot of students in
623
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:20,360
a Christian School who are not
saved and they're unchurched.
624
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:24,480
Their, their families see it as
just a better education, a
625
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,040
better situation for them to be
in.
626
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:28,480
And they have the money to pay
for it.
627
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,240
And they go, OK, we'll go, we'll
send them to private school.
628
00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:31,520
It's fine.
And they're going to talk about
629
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:32,920
the Bible.
That's whatever like that.
630
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:35,560
That's not our thing.
But they would send their, their
631
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:37,800
kids because they feel like it's
a better opportunity.
632
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:43,760
But there are an alarming number
of kids who even are churched
633
00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,920
but biblically illiterate.
And it's, it's almost like
634
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:50,080
they've been around the gospel
so much.
635
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:53,800
They've sort of just, I've
gotten too used to hearing it.
636
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,640
This can happen in in churches
too.
637
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,120
If you grew up in church, you
just hear it so much.
638
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:04,480
Sometimes some of these kids
kind of feel like, I mean, like
639
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,400
I'm Christian, like I go to
church once in a while and like
640
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,080
I go to a Christian School.
But the truth about Christian
641
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:14,120
schools is not, it's not just
that cut and dry.
642
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:17,520
So the behavioral content is not
different between a public
643
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,120
school and a private school.
And I'm Speaking of private
644
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,560
Christian schools because that's
my experience.
645
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,400
But the behavioral content is
not different between the two
646
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,880
systems.
You, you see the same behaviors
647
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:31,880
in the public school and in the
private school because you have
648
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:35,440
kids in both schools and you
have sin natures in both
649
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,640
schools.
I think some of the differences
650
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:42,840
is that in the public school
system you may have a higher
651
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:47,240
concentration of those behaviors
than you do in the private
652
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:51,200
Christian School, but the
behaviors still exist.
653
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:55,360
So then if you have the same
kinds of behaviors, you have the
654
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:59,200
same sin issues in a public
school and in a private school,
655
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,760
what advantage then?
Maybe Paul would say it this
656
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:03,640
way.
What advantage then is private?
657
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,080
And I say very much, very great
in every regard.
658
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:11,640
Right.
So let's talk about private
659
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:13,480
Christian schools.
And this is going to be out of,
660
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:16,800
out of my experience of teaching
into and then having visited
661
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:20,800
others and you know, you know,
collaborated with teachers in
662
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,680
other private Christian schools.
There's generally smaller
663
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:27,360
classes and that's a huge plus.
That's what's 1 of the the major
664
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:30,280
actually drawing points that we
when we get students into our
665
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:33,960
school, one of the major drawing
points is smaller class size.
666
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:36,240
What's a typical public school
class size?
667
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:40,280
When when Kenya had she's at,
she's in a more specialized
668
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,680
situation now, but when she was
teaching general population
669
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:47,040
students, she could have 30 and
that would be pretty normal.
670
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:51,080
I know that some of my some of
the teachers in the middle
671
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:55,800
school hallway right now at my
school have talked about having
672
00:33:55,800 --> 00:34:00,920
upwards of 3030, 334 students,
and that's middle school
673
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,440
students.
What's the limit for like for
674
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:05,680
Northwood because it could vary
from school to school?
675
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:11,520
Where we are right now is we cap
classes at 24 dot dot dot maybe
676
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:14,239
25 couple couple of them 20
fives.
677
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:17,840
Because when my last year
teaching trig I had one class of
678
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,960
25 and I was like this is a.
Lot that gets to the that that
679
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:21,840
that's the upper but.
It was.
680
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,920
It was that way because of
senior schedules and stuff.
681
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:27,800
And so it just was a special it
was one of those dot dot dots.
682
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:31,159
There's 25 in there, but I can
that was tight.
683
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:34,040
Adding five more kids that
you're responsible to try to
684
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:37,159
understand where there are
missing and under
685
00:34:37,159 --> 00:34:38,840
misunderstanding.
It would be very tough.
686
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:42,480
To try to individualize for 25
students in a class period is is
687
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:47,520
very challenging.
So by the way, the perfect class
688
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:49,880
size is 18 and I'll, I'll die on
that.
689
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,040
You know, that is the perfect
class size.
690
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,960
Yeah, 18, but generally smaller
classes, generally a smaller
691
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,440
concentration of those
challenging behaviors.
692
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,920
Now that all that depends on a
school's enrollment policy.
693
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,720
There are small Christian
schools that kind of just have
694
00:35:03,720 --> 00:35:07,160
to take whoever applies for
financial reasons.
695
00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:10,240
Our school doesn't have that
particular situation.
696
00:35:10,240 --> 00:35:15,040
We have some pretty significant
standards for academics and
697
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:18,160
behavior for the enrollment
process or admission.
698
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:22,640
Yeah, that too.
And, and, and so if you get to
699
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:25,680
be selective with the students
that you're admitting, well, you
700
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:28,720
naturally minimize some of those
problematic behaviors.
701
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,640
That doesn't mean you get rid of
them, but the concentration of
702
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:33,160
the behaviors generally goes
down.
703
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:38,360
I'll tell you the, I think maybe
the number one benefit of the
704
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:42,160
private Christian School is in
our responses to those
705
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:45,560
behavioral problems in the
public school system.
706
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:52,280
There are behavior modification
plans and there are strategies
707
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:56,040
and there are things that they
work with, but they can't really
708
00:35:56,040 --> 00:36:00,720
sit down and talk with a kid
about why what you did was
709
00:36:00,720 --> 00:36:05,800
wrong.
And that's, that's 50% of my job
710
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:07,240
right now.
That's what I do.
711
00:36:07,240 --> 00:36:12,960
I sit down and talk with kids
about what is right and what is
712
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,680
wrong and why do we have those
standards like so that's that's
713
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:20,920
crucial in the in the way that
we deal with behavioral problems
714
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:23,800
with students.
The public school system is not
715
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:27,080
able to provide a foundation for
what is moral behavior.
716
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:30,680
It's kind of it's just kind of a
hangover from the
717
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:32,840
judeo-christian framework of our
nation.
718
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:34,960
Like these are generally
accepted things.
719
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:36,960
You generally shouldn't be rude
to people.
720
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:39,400
You generally shouldn't use
offensive language.
721
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:43,000
You like all these things.
They're just kind of they're
722
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,360
kind of wishy washy.
If you don't have something that
723
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:49,600
you can say for this reason for
because of this objective truth
724
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:53,360
that comes from the creator,
this behavior is wrong.
725
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,760
And that's one of the things
that we get to do in a private
726
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:59,320
Christian School.
Wow, quick question.
727
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,040
I don't know, I have no idea
about this.
728
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:02,640
So it could be anywhere.
What's this?
729
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:06,520
When I hear people talk about
positives of public school,
730
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:10,640
sometimes they'll point to, you
know, special education
731
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:11,760
accommodations, these kind of
things.
732
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:13,720
So I don't know what it's like
in AI know it probably varies
733
00:37:13,720 --> 00:37:15,680
across private schools, but I
I've heard that's like one of
734
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,680
the things the resources
sometimes aren't there, that
735
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:19,840
kind of thing.
And that is, and so I've, I've
736
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:23,680
got some drawbacks kind of that
I thought through one of those
737
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:28,960
drawbacks of private Christian
schools is generally a, a
738
00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:33,400
smaller awareness of kind of the
reality of mental health issues.
739
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,040
But I think that's a, I think
it's a church issue.
740
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:39,760
I think our, our churches have
been maybe a little bit slow to
741
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:42,600
look at that.
I think, I mean, I maybe I'm a
742
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,360
little biased.
I think our church does really
743
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:48,160
well with this because of our
connection with the Low Country
744
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:52,680
Biblical Counseling Center and,
and an understanding of what,
745
00:37:52,720 --> 00:37:56,400
what mental health is and how
Scripture speaks into it and how
746
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,160
the Holy Spirit speaks into
those situations.
747
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:05,160
But there are definitely more
resources for special education
748
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:06,960
for some of that mental health
awareness.
749
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:10,480
But but again, in the public
school, if you were to go see a
750
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:14,440
counselor and you're dealing
with anxiety, there are some
751
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:18,360
things that they can do that
physiologically will help move
752
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,480
that process.
But there's a foundation that's
753
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:22,880
missing.
There's a foundation of truth
754
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:26,200
that's missing.
Now, let's say there are some
755
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:31,880
kids with autism at Northwood,
but I wouldn't say we have
756
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:38,840
anybody that has any major like
special education requirements
757
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:43,440
type of things that So that is
that's, I guess you could
758
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:47,080
consider that a drawback if
that's your child, but maybe
759
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:50,000
it's a positive if it's not your
child, because you know, the
760
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:54,080
teacher is not trying to
individualize to a very wide
761
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,360
range of students.
It's, it's some, like you said,
762
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:58,280
it's a little bit narrowed in
their focus.
763
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:00,440
It is, yeah, because of
enrollment policies.
764
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:03,400
So it provides that that
narrowness a little bit.
765
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,920
And I I bring that my wife was a
special education teacher for
766
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,200
for many years.
So I was like thinking about
767
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,000
that.
And then, you know, other people
768
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:12,040
when they talk, not that this is
the end all be all reason, but
769
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,600
you know, they say in a public
school system, you just get
770
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:19,960
exposure to the community.
It's not as like cookie cutter
771
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:23,400
to where you just get, you know,
not that this is a maybe this
772
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:25,960
could be a bad thing too, but
just experience dealing with
773
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:30,160
different kinds of people versus
a small slice of society.
774
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:32,200
You're kind of restricted home
schooling is the ultimate
775
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:34,080
version of that where you're
really restricted, right, where
776
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:38,440
you don't really interact as
much as you would in a, in a
777
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:41,320
public school probably.
And I would say at Northwood, we
778
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,280
have a very diverse student
population.
779
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:46,960
One of the reasons that I like,
was really adamant that I wanted
780
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,200
to get there and wanted to get
my kids there.
781
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:55,840
Back in 20/17/2018 when I was
looking for a change, the
782
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:58,160
diversity of the student
population was one of the things
783
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:01,560
that I was like that I, I want
my kids in this diversity.
784
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:05,880
Like I want them to to be able
to interact with people from
785
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:09,960
lots of different backgrounds
and ethnicities and, and really
786
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:15,320
kind of have that.
Multiple kind of slice of life
787
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:19,840
view from different people and
it it brings its challenges, but
788
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:21,440
they're good.
They're good challenges to have
789
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:22,720
to work.
Through No, I like I like that
790
00:40:22,720 --> 00:40:25,240
you said that because sorry,
Claire, my voice.
791
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,840
That's one reason we we went
from homeschooling to private
792
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:29,840
school.
I've really had a great
793
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,080
experience Northwick for that
exact reason.
794
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:34,280
And you know, I think people it
is.
795
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,040
It cuts both ways.
People on the homeschool side of
796
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,800
things might say there's a lot
of wasted time in the school
797
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:40,040
system when you get done with
everything.
798
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:45,000
But at the same time, my
experience in life is that I've
799
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:48,520
heard it said, you know, life is
a giant crew project me learn me
800
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,760
having a bad teacher in high
school was actually probably
801
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:52,920
good for me because I'm not a
bad manager in real life.
802
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:55,600
And sometimes when you cut that
out, you can be more efficient.
803
00:40:56,240 --> 00:40:58,000
But it's good to work with
adversity.
804
00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:59,440
Things aren't things aren't
perfect.
805
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,280
So it's like it cuts both ways,
maybe less efficient, but you
806
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,880
learn dealing with obstacles and
going through processes, not
807
00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:07,800
that they're always the best or
whatever.
808
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:10,160
Yeah.
So it's another bullet point
809
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:12,720
that I have for the private
school is this development of
810
00:41:12,720 --> 00:41:15,280
community and this development
of social capital.
811
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:19,640
And so there is something
significant about learning in a
812
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:23,040
community that is somewhat
larger and somewhat diverse.
813
00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:28,760
But then there, but then the
smaller class sizes still give
814
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:31,840
us this chance that I can, I can
see one of our middle school
815
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:33,920
students walking down the
hallway and I can tell from
816
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:35,840
their face if there's something
wrong.
817
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:38,840
And I can, I can pull that kid
aside and go, hey, like what's
818
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:40,280
going on today?
Is there anything that I can
819
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:43,960
help you with?
And it that's just that is just
820
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:48,240
something that we have a mandate
to be about at a school like
821
00:41:48,240 --> 00:41:52,240
like Northwood, where the
students are in this kind of
822
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:57,080
this kind of net of social
connections that is healthy for
823
00:41:57,080 --> 00:41:58,680
them.
It's a community that is good
824
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:02,640
for them.
And I know come back to to talk
825
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:05,480
about Matt Gilbert.
He, he went to North Northwood
826
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:10,840
as a student and he, he can tell
you stories about days that he
827
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:15,480
was in the hallway and one of
his administrators just just
828
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:17,640
felt something wasn't right and
pulled him in and had
829
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,840
conversations and, and worked
with him.
830
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:23,200
And that is a, a beautiful thing
that we get to do for students
831
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:26,200
to have that kind of social
capital being built up in this,
832
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:28,400
this safe community.
No, I'm.
833
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,240
I'm.
Amazed this talk positively
834
00:42:30,240 --> 00:42:32,480
about Northwood.
It's like I walked there like
835
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:35,160
there's like 50 different
teachers and kids, like yelling
836
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:37,080
out Jayden's name and like
people know him.
837
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:42,120
And then even like I barely work
with, you know, I've barely seen
838
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,920
Miss Van Dusen or Coach Steele,
these people, but they're like,
839
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:47,440
hey, Zach, how's it going?
I see them like once every four
840
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:48,200
weeks.
Like, how are you?
841
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:50,000
Like remembering all these
parents names and things.
842
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:51,480
I've been really impressed with
all that.
843
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:54,600
I can run down a couple of.
Remember you and Jayden because
844
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,600
Jayden pulled the fire alarm
when he was like 2 years old
845
00:42:57,600 --> 00:42:59,200
during basketball.
Oh, yeah, I can't.
846
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:01,920
I can't remember.
I I let my someone watch my kid
847
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:02,960
while I was coaching.
Who was it?
848
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:04,120
What's her name?
Chloe.
849
00:43:04,240 --> 00:43:07,840
Chloe Yeah, that's that's
actually.
850
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:09,680
A good point.
I think we need that story on
851
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:13,080
the podcast.
Maybe if Chloe's ever.
852
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:14,760
On podcast, that could be the
first.
853
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,680
Side of it, yeah, that's good.
So a couple of other things that
854
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:20,560
as as far as advantages in the,
in that private school,
855
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:24,520
Christian School world, our
percentage of extracurricular
856
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:27,000
participation, there is
something for every single
857
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,720
student to do.
Now we talk about, you know,
858
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,280
extra opportunities in the
public sector.
859
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,440
And I think that I think the
variety is probably wider in the
860
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:38,480
public school system because
they have funding for lots of
861
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:41,800
different things.
But I will say the last time we
862
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:44,400
ran the numbers, we had
something like 88% of our
863
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:47,280
students in the Upper school at
Northwood Academy participating
864
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:48,800
in some kind of extra
curricular.
865
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,000
And that might have been an art
club, that might have been
866
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:52,720
archery, soccer, football.
I I.
867
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:55,200
Just I was going to say it,
probably not chess.
868
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:55,840
Club.
Probably not.
869
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:57,200
That's a waste of time.
Probably not.
870
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,080
You got to bring in that that
participation money.
871
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,840
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Oh, and I was Speaking of chess.
872
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:06,520
I was taking a little listen to
one of the recent podcasts
873
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,600
there.
There's a quote that there was a
874
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,440
pawn and a checkerboard.
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
875
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:14,960
Unbelievable.
That, I mean, Joe read, I mean,
876
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:16,920
it wasn't Joe's quote.
He just read a quote from
877
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,360
someone else.
And it was like, you know, is it
878
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:21,400
sometimes when you're reading
through the sovereignty God, it
879
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:23,440
might feel like we're all just
pawns on a checkerboard.
880
00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:26,160
And I was like, this is crazy.
Maybe the point was life doesn't
881
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:27,240
make sense.
Maybe it was.
882
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:29,640
Something deeper, the metaphor
in there.
883
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:32,560
I just thought it would make
Michael really angry just to see
884
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:33,600
that I was like it.
Doesn't.
885
00:44:34,240 --> 00:44:36,800
Make sense?
The other things freedom to
886
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:39,840
integrate biblical worldview.
Really, it's not just freedom to
887
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:42,440
do it, it's a mandate.
Like we're we tell our teachers
888
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:44,680
this is one of your primary
roles.
889
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:47,200
It's easy to intrigue.
This to yeah, it's to help
890
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:51,440
students see the this holistic
view of their discipline in
891
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:55,320
light of a Christian worldview.
And then there's also a freedom
892
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:58,400
from from isolating and
emphasizing certain state
893
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:01,560
standards that just have to be
checked off the list for state
894
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:05,200
testing so that a school gets
funding from those test scores
895
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,560
like that.
We we have a freedom from that
896
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:11,760
in the private school.
Now, there are also drawbacks.
897
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:15,440
You do run the risk of some less
qualified teachers because
898
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:19,240
there's not the same
requirements for a private
899
00:45:19,240 --> 00:45:22,800
school hiring and, and it can
vary from school to school.
900
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,040
Generally it's a, it's a degree
in the content area that you're
901
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:29,840
teaching that you have to have,
not an education degree.
902
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:33,480
Now I'm an example of that.
I had an English degree and went
903
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:37,200
on to have some great mentors
and then develop the skill set
904
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:42,200
to, to do teaching.
But it does, it does open the
905
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:45,080
door for some less qualified
teachers.
906
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:47,880
Although I will say this goes
the other way too.
907
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:53,080
Not every teacher that gets a
degree in education is qualified
908
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:54,600
because they got a degree in
education.
909
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:58,800
It doesn't just follow.
A lot of it is just made in the
910
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:00,520
classroom.
A lot of it is made by good
911
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:06,200
mentors and and from the teacher
being willing to be a student
912
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:08,880
for the rest of their lives.
If the teacher is not learning,
913
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:12,200
the students are not learning
and that's a major, major best
914
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:14,720
practice for teachers.
There's also the expense to
915
00:46:14,720 --> 00:46:16,280
parents.
Private schools.
916
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,560
My kids would not be able to
attend private school if I
917
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:19,880
didn't teach at a private
school.
918
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:23,480
It's just it's, it's, it's
expensive.
919
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:26,160
Yeah, I think about that and
it's like, man, if you're in a
920
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:29,560
position where you're 2 girls.
Where you have 5 girls.
921
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:33,760
Yeah, I went for Thank Goodness,
boys, where it's like if you're
922
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:35,480
in a position where you're
picking between public school,
923
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:38,240
private school and home school,
that's a good place to be
924
00:46:38,240 --> 00:46:40,480
because not everyone has that
option.
925
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,400
And we're my family.
We've got four boys.
926
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:45,480
We're at a crossroads.
We can support two boys at a
927
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:47,720
private school.
We can't really support more.
928
00:46:47,720 --> 00:46:52,360
So it's it's like, oh, it's
really a tough, a tough thing.
929
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:54,480
And you think about like, yeah,
that is a that is a sacrifice
930
00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:57,120
and it is expensive and we've
had a great experience, but.
931
00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:00,280
That maybe, maybe there's
employment opportunities for
932
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,480
Leanne in the future with her
education background.
933
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:06,480
And that's and so any remember
what we said bad about
934
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:08,160
northward.
Can you edit that out is that in
935
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:12,280
case this goes out?
Just kidding, but yeah, that
936
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:14,880
that I think that's a man that
that's a tough one where
937
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:17,880
sometimes homeschooling is more
of an option because you can do,
938
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:21,080
it's still not nothing, but you
can do that for less expensive
939
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:23,120
and.
Then just two other things that
940
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,600
sometimes at a private Christian
School you have some of these
941
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:29,800
kind of draconian rules that
have lasted in handbook.
942
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,920
Sometimes it's dress code thing,
sometimes it's, it's other types
943
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:36,760
of rules and handbook policies
that have stayed around.
944
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:39,720
I do have to say, I think I
think Northwood has done a good
945
00:47:39,720 --> 00:47:42,080
job of walking that line between
having them.
946
00:47:42,240 --> 00:47:44,560
You know, you, you have to have
standards.
947
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:47,440
It's that, it's that broken
window principle.
948
00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:51,480
If you, if you slip on some
standards, a lot of behavior
949
00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:55,720
issues come from students
recognizing, oh, these policies
950
00:47:55,720 --> 00:47:58,960
aren't being policed.
And so it, it's, it's a very
951
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,600
slippery slope.
And so you really do have to set
952
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,960
a hard line somewhere.
Sometimes it's difficult to
953
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:08,280
decide where that is.
I will say our draconian cell
954
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:12,040
phone policies are being adopted
by the state of South Carolina.
955
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:16,600
By law, every every educational
institution is seeing the
956
00:48:16,600 --> 00:48:20,160
benefit of getting phones out of
the hands of students during
957
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:22,320
instructional time.
That's something private schools
958
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:24,160
have been on top of for a long.
Time.
959
00:48:25,240 --> 00:48:27,560
That seems like a very common
sense thing because I think we
960
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:30,280
were watching the news story and
my kids or hearing something.
961
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:32,400
My kids are like, wait, what?
How?
962
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:34,680
How do they have phones?
Like, well, not all the schools
963
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:37,360
have rules like like you do.
So that was one of the big
964
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:39,640
battles that my wife fought when
she was teaching general
965
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,440
population is you have 35
students in a classroom.
966
00:48:42,720 --> 00:48:46,000
Half of them have earbuds in and
the other half were kind of
967
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:48,000
texting each other on the side.
And like you're trying to,
968
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,760
you're trying to give
instruction and then have them
969
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:53,400
work in small groups and then
work with a group yourself and
970
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,880
and it's phones are everywhere.
You see the viral videos of like
971
00:48:57,120 --> 00:49:00,040
the like teacher, like grabbing
it and just throwing it and of
972
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,760
course now they're fired.
But you can understand why
973
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:04,960
they're frustrated.
Like they're given all they
974
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:08,360
have, they're trying to
communicate, and they're just
975
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,880
not getting any respect or any
type of interaction.
976
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:14,120
Well, and we're now we're on the
cusp of all of the studies, like
977
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:17,040
longitudinal studies that are
being done about the effects of
978
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:20,480
social media and cell phones,
especially on tweens and teens.
979
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:24,040
Like we're it now that the data
is, it's kind of, it's been the
980
00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:28,160
Wild West for the past 20 years.
We're but now the data is
981
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:32,600
catching up and people are not
able to ignore the kind of
982
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:35,520
mental health crisis that that
the proliferation of social
983
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:40,960
media has had on students and
the impact and lost educational
984
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:44,000
time from having cell phones in
classrooms.
985
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:46,880
Like so all the data is now
catching up and we're going, oh,
986
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:50,960
no, we better regulate this.
So, so our our private Christian
987
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:54,040
School cell phone policies are
now catching statewide.
988
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:55,400
Yeah.
It's probably like smoking or
989
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:57,040
something.
It's like we all do it and now,
990
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:59,440
like the data is overwhelming
where it's like, actually,
991
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:01,600
that's Speaking of draconian
rules.
992
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:06,200
I was born in the 90s but I went
to a private school in Kentucky
993
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:09,480
when I was in 3rd or 4th grade,
so.
994
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:11,280
You went to school in the 70s,
basically.
995
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:15,600
Yeah, exactly, I got.
So y'all went from Memphis to
996
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:16,440
Kentucky?
Yeah.
997
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:20,200
So my dad, he like did his
fellowship for a couple years
998
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:21,520
somewhere.
So we had to like move while he
999
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:25,520
was doing some of his training.
And so he worked at University
1000
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:26,880
of Kentucky for like two or
three.
1001
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:28,240
And then we went back to
Memphis.
1002
00:50:28,240 --> 00:50:30,920
I got you and when I was like in
second or third grade or
1003
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,880
something I got disappointed.
I got spanked by the principal
1004
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:36,760
at a school as like 1/3.
Grader, I've been I've been
1005
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:43,280
spanked at at school twice.
Once was by a female junior high
1006
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:46,800
principal.
And I will tell you I I could
1007
00:50:47,640 --> 00:50:51,040
give you my innocence in both of
these cases, it did not hurt.
1008
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:53,640
I felt I was embarrassed for
her.
1009
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:56,920
You're like, you're like, lady,
you got to give a little more
1010
00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:58,320
than that name.
Here, I don't know if she it was
1011
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:01,760
like Miss Morgan.
I'm like, if you're if you're
1012
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:03,920
spanking people, it's got to be
better bring that stuff.
1013
00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:05,840
It wasn't.
Maybe she knew that I was
1014
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:12,760
innocent and that's why science
teacher had one of the students
1015
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:16,480
marking tardies and in science
the nerd.
1016
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:18,400
That I I was stuck.
He is so passionate about it.
1017
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:19,600
I love it.
It's like sticking with.
1018
00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:20,640
Me.
He's like, come on, the.
1019
00:51:20,720 --> 00:51:24,640
Nerd that I am like I put my
stuff down I go up and I talk to
1020
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:29,200
Mr. Bird about science like I'm
talking to him about classroom
1021
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:32,040
stuff and then he'll be like OK
we're about to start and I go
1022
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:35,400
sit down.
So unbeknownst to me, I've got
1023
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:37,880
like 5 tardies on the books
because.
1024
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:40,400
Someone's been joining me to
her, There's like, you're not in
1025
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:42,680
your desk, right?
Yeah, even though I was there.
1026
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:47,320
So anyways, but then I got
another paddling by a coach
1027
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:50,040
that'll I'll say that one left
the whole sting, Yeah.
1028
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:52,160
That'll leave the.
One that left the sting again.
1029
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:54,920
I'll I was innocent in that case
too.
1030
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:56,600
Of course you didn't know Wrong,
no?
1031
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:59,040
No, no, no.
There are things I probably did.
1032
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:01,040
There are things I did that I
probably should have gotten a
1033
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:02,200
paddling.
For so it was just catching
1034
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:03,760
those two.
Were not those two were not but
1035
00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:05,680
I.
Just caught that you were
1036
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:07,520
embarrassed for.
Like you did you apologize to?
1037
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:10,640
I'm sorry, that was not good.
Oh man.
1038
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:14,880
Yeah, so I I went to the school
that my dad taught at in from
1039
00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:18,360
kindergarten to 8th grade and he
taught 3rd and 4th grade.
1040
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:23,040
And when I got in trouble at
that school, he got called to
1041
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:23,280
the.
Office.
1042
00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:25,320
Oh man.
And so I think he paddled me
1043
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:27,240
once in the office.
I think the principal might have
1044
00:52:27,240 --> 00:52:30,360
done it one time too.
But yeah, that was that was a
1045
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:32,360
different time.
Different time, yeah.
1046
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:34,560
Yeah.
So real quick, while we're
1047
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:39,600
wrapping up, I did have this
question for you about so I've
1048
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,800
I've heard, and I'm sure you're
familiar, but just in case, I
1049
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:44,480
don't want to, you know, play
something chump.
1050
00:52:44,480 --> 00:52:49,000
But the trivia model of learning
that says like younger,
1051
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:52,800
basically elementary grammar
stage of learning sponges that
1052
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:54,200
kind of memorize a whole lot of
stuff.
1053
00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:59,160
Middle school logic phase where
they are like putting rules and
1054
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:02,040
stuff together.
Then high school's the rhetoric
1055
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:05,120
phase where they're like
learning how to defend and
1056
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:09,760
exchange ideas and stuff.
I think that's generally makes
1057
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:12,880
sense.
Was that any part of your
1058
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:15,400
teaching?
Is that something that genuinely
1059
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:19,120
they try that you've seen people
try to follow or is that kind of
1060
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:22,600
all new or?
I don't think that we have a
1061
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:27,280
conscious effort to to be in
that.
1062
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:32,280
Now there are best practices
that work with different
1063
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:34,800
developmental stages.
And so there definitely are
1064
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:38,880
developmental stages where we
want to use a certain type of
1065
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:42,360
questioning more with this
developmental stage than this
1066
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:45,120
one.
So it's so for example, I mean,
1067
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,320
my, my last six years of
teaching is just all middle
1068
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:51,800
schools, all 7th grade and 7th
grade is it is an interesting
1069
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:55,920
time because it's, they're,
they're, they're really starting
1070
00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:58,320
to have the possibility of
abstract thinking.
1071
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:01,840
Prior to that, there's really
not much of that going on it.
1072
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:04,400
They're just kind of dipping
their toes into abstract
1073
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:07,400
thinking.
And so if you tell a 7th grader
1074
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:11,560
like, OK, we're going to write a
research paper, it doesn't
1075
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:15,840
really make sense to them.
They focus more on, wait, I have
1076
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:18,960
to have these, this note card is
supposed to have this stuff on
1077
00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:20,160
it.
And the source card is supposed
1078
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:23,760
to have this stuff on it.
They're, they're not building
1079
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:27,680
this composite model in their
minds of what the research paper
1080
00:54:27,680 --> 00:54:29,760
is supposed to do.
They're still pretty, pretty
1081
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:32,920
task oriented.
Now you get some that are, that
1082
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:35,240
are moving into that abstract
thought.
1083
00:54:35,560 --> 00:54:38,680
But having that kind of
understanding of where the
1084
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:42,480
different developmental stages
are for, for learning does
1085
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:44,600
change your practice.
And so like in 7th grade, I
1086
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:46,440
would, I didn't do a research
paper.
1087
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:49,800
There were three different
research assignments that
1088
00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:53,280
scaffolded to, to meet those
skills that they were going to
1089
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:55,520
need when they go on to write a
research paper.
1090
00:54:56,480 --> 00:55:02,160
But it, it definitely makes a
difference where the students
1091
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:07,120
are and, and at what level
they're, they are able to think
1092
00:55:07,120 --> 00:55:09,960
abstractly before you start
working in some of those
1093
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:11,560
concepts.
And so I definitely think that
1094
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:16,280
there is a, there's a, a major
role for looking carefully at
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00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:21,240
developmental stages and then
creating appropriate assignments
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00:55:21,240 --> 00:55:25,480
and interactions based on those.
There's a great book called
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00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:29,400
Nurture that is Christian.
And it's a series of essays,
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00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:34,600
kind of doctoral style
dissertations on that very
1099
00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:38,560
issue, developmental psychology
and children, developmental
1100
00:55:38,720 --> 00:55:41,400
stages and learning.
But it's done in a, in a
1101
00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:44,800
Christian worldview, and it's a,
it's a great resource for that
1102
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:47,240
kind of topic.
Can I ask a follow up with that?
1103
00:55:47,240 --> 00:55:52,560
I'm curious because I always was
kind of salty at my parents
1104
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:57,000
because I started school like my
birthday was at the cut off.
1105
00:55:57,240 --> 00:55:58,680
I was always the youngest in my
class.
1106
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:00,920
Like I had people getting their
driver's license before like
1107
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:03,200
they were turning 16.
I had, I was like just turning
1108
00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:04,280
14.
It was like a big gap.
1109
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:07,280
And I mean, purely from a sports
perspective, I was like, man, I
1110
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:09,400
could have another year of being
great.
1111
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:11,840
I'd be older.
But you know, what's the
1112
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:13,400
thinking like in the sports
world?
1113
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:15,760
It's like, man, you hold your
kid back as far as much as you
1114
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:18,200
can.
And that is directly correlated
1115
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:19,360
to what?
So they're going to play sports
1116
00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:20,560
in college.
If they're if they got a, if
1117
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:22,840
they're the oldest one in their
class, it goes up like 3
1118
00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:25,720
hundredfold.
Like it's like, it's amazing the
1119
00:56:25,720 --> 00:56:27,240
difference.
I don't know about cognition,
1120
00:56:27,240 --> 00:56:28,400
that kind of thing.
If it's better.
1121
00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:32,040
I know each child is different,
but you know, I don't know if
1122
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:33,640
there's any what.
Was the what was the question?
1123
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:34,760
Yeah.
Does that make a difference at
1124
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:37,680
all as far as like?
Do you see trends with age?
1125
00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:44,880
So in it is very child specific.
Generally you can have students
1126
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:50,640
that are very well academically
prepared, even if they're on
1127
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:53,760
that younger, that younger side
of their class, they can be
1128
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:57,880
extremely academically prepared,
OK with the rigor, OK with the
1129
00:56:57,880 --> 00:57:00,240
work level.
The, the thing that is generally
1130
00:57:00,240 --> 00:57:02,680
lagging behind is the emotional
maturity.
1131
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:06,160
And so we, we, you kind of watch
those students, if they are
1132
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:09,760
really on the younger side,
generally, if they have, if
1133
00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:13,480
they've made the cut, they're
generally academically pretty
1134
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:16,000
solid and able to handle the
academic load.
1135
00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:19,800
But you have to, you have to
nurture those kids just a little
1136
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:23,880
bit differently because usually
the, the social and emotional
1137
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:27,000
part is, is lagging behind the
rest of their peers.
1138
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,000
Because you have some peers that
are like 2 years older than
1139
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:32,280
them, potentially in that are
almost two years older than them
1140
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:35,040
in that same kind of grouping of
students.
1141
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:37,680
And so a lot of times it's it's
looking out for those ones
1142
00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:42,520
because social emotional lags
behind academic a lot of times.
1143
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:46,680
That explains my emotional and
social problem.
1144
00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:48,960
It all makes sense.
But you're super smart.
1145
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:51,840
What?
What you got something?
1146
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:54,280
What else is on your mind,
Jonathan, or things you want to
1147
00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:59,960
add?
How about a joke that Michael's
1148
00:57:59,960 --> 00:58:02,160
going to maybe appreciate?
Yeah, let's hear, let's.
1149
00:58:02,560 --> 00:58:05,840
I'm going to end on a joke.
So why did the two average kids
1150
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:07,480
get sent to the principal's
office?
1151
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:09,520
Oh, I know this I.
Already know it I.
1152
00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:11,720
Know this I already know.
It does it start with an M?
1153
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:13,440
Yes.
OK, I don't know a lot about
1154
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:16,040
math, but it seems like there's
a mean mean.
1155
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:18,720
They yeah, they were being mean.
That's good.
1156
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:20,000
That's good, that's great.
That's.
1157
00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:21,760
Great.
It doesn't make sense if you, if
1158
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:24,520
you come from an ELA background,
you have to look that up and I
1159
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:26,040
will.
I'm just going to be completely
1160
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:30,200
honest with you.
I googled average versus mean
1161
00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:33,680
today so that I could edit that
joke a little bit so that there
1162
00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:37,000
were two averages, because if
it's just one average, it's not
1163
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:37,720
going to work.
It's good.
1164
00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:41,200
It's good.
What a great, what a great way
1165
00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:45,680
to to wrap things up again, the
guest should, should close us
1166
00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:48,160
out.
We we say, we look at the camera
1167
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:50,520
intensely.
And say that's our intensity.
1168
00:58:52,160 --> 00:58:53,440
That's our take.
Oh.
1169
00:58:53,840 --> 00:58:57,480
Love it, love it.
Thanks for listening to Take
1170
00:58:57,480 --> 00:58:59,680
Two.
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1171
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:02,200
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1172
00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:02,880
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