Aug. 6, 2025
From Chaos to Calling | A Teacher's Story Part 1

Episode 2.28
Zach and Michael sit down with Matthew Gilbert, a teacher at Northwood Academy—and a former student who once caused more than his fair share of trouble. Now on the other side of the desk, Matthew shares his journey from chaos to calling, the power of grace in the classroom, and how one teacher’s care can change everything. It’s funny, non-stop, and a little chaotic—just like Matthew himself.
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All right.
Well, welcome.
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And we have a guest with us
today, Mr. Doctor.
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Bush.
Matthew.
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Matt Gilbert and the Flesh.
Glad to be here and I hear that
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you're somewhat of a
connoisseur, like an expert on 7
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legged octopi AKA.
Septopus OK, there we go.
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OK, I was made an expert by your
daughter who has developed this
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like, whimsical storyline around
Fred Deceptipus and various
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injuries and travails that he's
went through.
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Lydia.
This definitely, I think Lydia.
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I'm probably almost out.
Fell drew one on his board every
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day after school.
And so we created, yeah, this
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like, weird situation that I
eventually started to take
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advantage of where I have 8th
graders for homeroom and they
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would come in and there would be
this and it would be labeled as
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Fred Deceptipus.
But like, it was kind of kept a
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secret from like the 8th
graders.
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It's like this rite of passage
thing of like, oh, we don't, we
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don't talk about that.
That's like not a thing that was
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a that was a Jonathan White
trick there to go ahead and just
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like just make it a secret.
And the more like mystery there
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is around it, the bigger deal it
becomes, Even if it's just a
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crazy, crazy senior doing crazy
senior stuff.
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I think it's from finding an emo
too or something.
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Like, yeah, yeah, yeah.
It was never explained to me in
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that way.
That would make that would make
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far more sense.
I I should brush up on my kid
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movies.
Yeah.
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Yeah.
Because, yeah, I did not know
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that.
I just thought it was a thing.
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And again, there's this whole
back story about it.
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It's a it's a long story, so
very cool.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Well, my question, I feel like
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this would be a great place to
solve a dilemma.
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I'm a little bit nervous to ask
it because if if you remember, I
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know you remember last year,
man, our kids were on a pretty
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amazing soccer team.
Yes, we were undefeated, I
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think, correct which and that's
what it's all about at that.
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Age.
Oh, that's what, yes, when
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you're talking about 7 and 8
year olds, what you want to do
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is mow for the competition.
That's what we were trying to
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instill with the killer instinct
in children.
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Which Simeon Matt Son, stalwart
goalie.
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It was amazing.
I did not.
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And I guess you played goalie.
Yeah, yeah.
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So growing up, like I was a
bigger dude and, you know, I
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wasn't exactly fleet afoot.
And so we didn't have a football
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team at all at the time.
I'm like, I need to run around a
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good bit.
And so I would go out there and
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play soccer and like they were
driving midfielder different
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places like that.
And finally they're like you're
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goalie, bro.
And so they finally put me back
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there and it it worked out
pretty well.
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I got pretty decent at it
because I was honoring enough to
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kind of run out and kind of dive
and be the crazy stuff and just
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be kind of a crazy person to do
football things as a goalie.
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And so apparently it's genetic
because Simeon kind of does a
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lot of the same sort of stuff.
I see the same mannerisms, like
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the same kind of mental thought
processes.
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And so I find myself way more
nervous watching him do it.
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Then.
It's weird being a parent watch
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this kind of stuff because when
you play you don't think about
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it, but when you're watching
your kids out there and it's
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like that kind of thing, even at
such a low stakes thing as that,
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it still kind of makes you
nervous.
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I've experienced that because
Karis played goalie and I've
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seen her die for a ball and I'm
like.
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You have those mixed.
Responses like you want them to
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be aggressive, but then you see
like a foot that's like this far
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from your face, it's not good.
It's like, hey, we want to stop
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the ball, but we also don't want
you to fracture an orbital well,
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but that's not something we want
to happen.
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I believe that's anatomically
correct that.
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Sounded great, but yeah, he's
got the good instincts, right.
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We were a great team,
undefeated.
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We some of those games we were
like really late.
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I think we weren't like
disrespectful, but we had a
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great team.
Yes, I would.
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I would wholly agree.
It was a lot of fun to watch and
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they all got so much better.
And to your infinite credit, you
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handled it great.
Like the kids had so much fun.
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They learned a lot.
And so anytime like as I get
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older, I appreciate kind of
institutions more and kind of
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the value they have in different
ways of shipping character and
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just letting kids have fun and
bringing parents together who
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may not have been together.
And so having you kind of
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facilitate that as the coach, my
introduction was.
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The head coach, yes.
OK.
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Did he have an assistant coach?
I did.
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So This is why I bring up
because I take a lot of heat
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because Michael's always like
we, I have assistant coach with
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him in basketball.
He's we and he's assistant.
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We've got kind of got back and
forth like when his daughter's
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playing, my kids playing.
And next year is like the
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perfect storm, where Jackson's
in second grade, Simeon's in
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second grade.
Absolutely.
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Phoebe's in kindergarten, which
I don't know if you've seen.
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Jackson is like, he's a giant
second grader.
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He's gonna, I'm actually a
little bit nervous 'cause he's
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not, he's not like I don't.
Think kindergarteners.
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Isn't it 123 and then four and
five?
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I don't think kindergarteners
can play basketball unless you
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no, no, sorry.
Sorry this is I'm thinking.
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Soccer, Soccer.
Soccer, which will be coming up.
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Yeah, we're trying to continue
the dynasty.
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Yeah, yeah.
It's called, Yeah, let's get the
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second ring.
You know, maybe we'll get the
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team rings.
Absolutely.
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And.
He pops all the way around.
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I I love it and Jonathan Weiss
could could play.
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So I'm just saying we could have
a a lot.
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A lot of team or.
White.
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Hell, Gilbert team so.
I bring this up because we got
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to figure out the dynamic of the
coaching tree here because,
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yeah, there's a lot of us, you
know?
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So I don't, I don't know, I was
like, maybe we can solve this
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problem, you know?
I'm here for it.
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I will fulfill whatever role is
needed.
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We should have like coordinate
like 4 coaches on the side and
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right there we're all coaching,
you know?
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If it's soccer, I probably just
should be the conditioning coach
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or something like that.
That's great.
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Like explaining offsides or
something, you know I.
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Just I just want to stand there
and draw a bunch of like
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esoteric nonsense on a on a
board and just start like
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showing it the kids just to see
their responses.
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It's an ornery approach, I
understand, but I would really
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enjoy it.
It'd be great and I'll, I'll
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tell you what I, we probably
could have used, I don't know if
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you noticed this, but there were
times where I think our team was
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the worst at it, where those on
the bench were like 5 fields
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over and I was like trying to
coach the people on the field
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and out.
It was chaos, but it was good,
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you know?
It was fun and like watching my
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son over there because he was
definitely a part of the of the
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of the group that was kind of
doing their own thing over there
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at times.
Was kind of fun to see because
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I'm like, hey, at least he's
having fun.
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Coach Hill's really in the game,
and whatever's happening back
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there on that whimsical pirate
ship just is what it is.
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But we were undefeated.
That's anyway.
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Carry on.
Yeah.
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So you, you have listened to the
podcast some, correct?
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Yeah, Yeah, you don't.
It's OK if you haven't listened
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to every single one of them.
But did you catch our series on
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wisdom literature from the Old
Testament?
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I heard that that was a thing.
I had started one of them and I
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never got to the one which I
assume this is going direction
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of talking about Ecclesiastes
because I knew what this was.
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I was I'm getting funneled into
an Ecclesiastes.
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So Jonathan asked us to to maybe
have you just say a short word
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on the book of Ecclesiastes.
See, here's the thing with with
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Jonathan White and for y'all
that know him.
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Obviously, I know a lot of the
listeners do, he does these kind
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of things just as a troll tactic
because he knows like my, my
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mind is a, is a fragile
fractured sort of thing.
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And so like, I have to get a
thought going.
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And once the train starts going,
I can't really focus on anything
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else.
And so his goal is always to
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like, like get some thought and
set some thought in my head
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before it ever starts.
And so he'll have a kid come in
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and he always plants a question
with a kid because he's a
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coward.
He doesn't know himself.
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So wherever you are out there,
I'm sure you'll see this at some
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point in time.
You've already tried to plant a
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question here.
You're a coward.
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There was talk of scuffing the
floors.
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I'm just totally kidding.
I don't get anyone in trouble.
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No scores.
I'm not.
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Scuffing any floor on purpose.
So yeah, we, we, we have been
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graced to be able to record off
our normal location in the
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hallowed halls of Northwood
Academy and those floors.
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Have been waxed about Northwoods
or Northwood, I'm sorry it's.
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Terribly offensive to say that.
That the hallway smelled.
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I'm learning like all, all these
things, yeah.
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Yeah, you got to, you got to
learn the way of the land here
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as you go through the hallway,
every each other's own sort of
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thing.
Yeah.
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You should walk lower school,
then middle school, then high
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school that all three smell.
Different, different.
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Lower School smells like if you.
Blindfolded me and dropped me
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off at part of the school.
I would know where I was.
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That'd be amazing.
Like if they're like a popcorn
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smell.
Clearly you've dropped me off at
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the cafeteria.
If you drop me off over here,
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it's usually like a like a
cheaper Cologne type smell.
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We won't talk about the smells
of the middle school hallway,
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but they are unique.
There we go.
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Yes, yes.
So it's a different experience
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all together.
And I would say lower school, it
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smells like they're just hyping
up hand sanitizer fumes all day.
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It's like, no wonder my, you
know, I had a kid there that
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would come home with like just,
you know, raw stuff.
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Like they're like washing their.
Hands 15 times a day and putting
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sanitizer on.
Them because they're all
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diseases.
Yeah.
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You work with the most likely
carriers of almost everything
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somehow.
And yet obviously you live in
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utter fear of it.
That's just the way it goes.
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I love it.
We cover a lot just in the
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banter.
This is great.
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I'm excited for this.
This will be awesome.
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Matt, can you just stare into
the soul of the camera, OK?
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I'm I'm excited about this,
although I'm starting to forget
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the lines.
I'm a little nervous here.
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I'm not going to lie to you.
So let me just let me just go
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with this and say it's time to
take it to the next level here
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and let's fire up that twangy
music.
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From the hearts of the Low
Country in South Carolina.
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It's the Take Two podcast where
we take theology to the next
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level.
Well, Matt, really excited to
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have you on the podcast.
And, and really the first thing
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that came to my mind is you, you
know, my kids go to Northwood.
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It's great.
I grew up, I went to a Christian
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School, you went to Christian
School, you went to Northwood as
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a student and now you're
teaching at the school you went
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to.
And I think, you know, not only
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does that encompass a lot of
year, I mean a few decades and
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you can see how things have
evolved.
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Like what's the good, what's the
bad?
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It's just so interesting to be
in that kind of ecosystem and
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just being able to pour into
kids life lives and see like, I
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don't know, I don't know.
I, that's what I want to hear
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about your testimony, how it
relates to all that.
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So I'm sure a lot of things will
come out of that.
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And I'm also interested to know
how your parents, because they
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don't go to Northwick Assembly,
do they?
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No, they go to this.
School over like north side or
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faith assembly or.
Something and this we went to
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church here for, for a long
time.
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And so they, we were members
here for years and years and
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years.
And so this is from a church
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standpoint and from a school
standpoint, kind of the to the
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more central institutions in my
life that kind of developed who
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I was.
And so I have a lot to be
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thankful for for this place.
You know, it's why I've come
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back here.
It's weird to be back, but
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certainly.
So.
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I mean, we chose this because I
think you're talking for.
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Yeah.
How many years?
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This is going to be 10.
Oh, a decade, Yeah.
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So which is like, it's crazy to
think I've been back here for a
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decade now, but yeah, it's been
this is going to be your 10.
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And so I guess for me, I mean,
starting off like like most kids
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that grew up in the Bible Belt,
like I was expose the Gospel
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early.
I did believe myself to be a
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believer.
But there's this kind of rite of
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passage thing that I see kind
of, you know, kind of coming of
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age sort of thing that I see
with like all the kids different
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ages.
Some it's more severe than
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others were like you start to
question everything where it, it
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has to switch from, from your,
from your parents faith to your
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faith.
And for some people that's a
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really easy transition.
For other people, it's not.
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And so my mom particularly was
very good about like, look at
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the Bible, said it like she went
with it and, and she was
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comfortable with that and did
not have to think through like a
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lot of different peripheral
elements.
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And there's nothing wrong with
that.
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A lot of the students are that
way, but there's a type of
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student that was very much so
like me at the time.
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And this is where kind of this
institution created some guide
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rails for me that allowed me
different avenues to ask
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questions, that allowed me
different avenues to struggle
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both with faith and just with
being 15 or whatever, and to try
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to come to grips and make the
faith my own.
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And so one of the things I'm
most pleased with, to be honest,
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being back here is there are
definitely situations with kids
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over the years that I've carried
on a relationship after they've
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left that I've taught in
multiple years, some of them
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three years in a situation like
that where like you see the
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growth and you know that in some
small way, like, look, I'm not
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the Holy Spirit, I'm not doing
the work.
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I'm able to kind of be a little
bit of those guide rails for
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them.
And that's like the most
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thrilling process and like
teaching middle school and high
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school because I've, I've done
about middle school for most of
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the time.
Last year I switched and I, I
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went from teaching to 7th and
8th grade to now I teach 8th
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grade and seniors and like, and
so it's a different dynamic
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altogether of reaching kids in
different situations that have
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different struggles.
But seeing like different groups
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now and have been here 10 years,
go from the far end of the other
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hall, which you don't know what
that is.
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If you don't, you're not around
here, but that's the middle
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school hall.
And then you slowly March your
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way over here and then see who
they become.
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The seniors is kind of the thing
that keeps you coming back.
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I am fascinated in not only like
I grew up in a Christian School
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and I went to Christian School,
but I never have taught at the
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Christian School I went to.
That is like just.
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Amazing, weird dude.
Like I still at times, like I
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was like up until a couple years
ago, the assistant principal who
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was like the hammer, if he got
in trouble, he's made of wires.
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And like, he didn't like, he
didn't like really show emotion
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like a real boy.
He was kind of Pinocchio, you
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know what I mean?
And so but like, but like if
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Pinocchio and Terminator had a
baby, that's like what he was
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like, OK.
And so like he would come by my
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classroom and it would be about
a student, but like 15 year old
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me remembered like, oh crap, I'm
getting suspended because like
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if Mr. Combs came by and it came
by my room, I was in trouble.
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And like I couldn't get that out
of my head.
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And so like anytime you showed
up, like my heart kind of
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skipped because I'm like, I'm,
I'm toast.
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Like this is going to be
terrible.
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And so it's just weird.
So it's different.
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It's different being in the
building that like you, not the
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same building, but the same
institution that kind of made
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you in some way.
That is pretty cool.
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Not to get too much on a
tangent, biggest difference
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between an eighth grader and a
senior or like one of like what,
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what how would you characterize
like because you teach both of
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those right now.
So you're going back and forth.
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OK, yes.
Man, OK.
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Oh, that's a really hard
question.
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Let's start with just the amount
of showers taken.
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I think for seniors,
considerably higher, but no, I
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mean, that's more so the younger
groups there, but there's a lot
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more in depth questioning.
There's a lot more cynicism from
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the older groups, if I had to be
honest.
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And there's a lot more they're
much better at kind of if you're
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faking it in any way, like kind
of smelling that out and knowing
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like, OK, he's saying the words
he has to say because this is
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where he works or this is
something he really believes.
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And like they know that pretty
quick.
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And so there is a balance
though, as a teacher, I'll be
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honest, that is difficult at
times between I need to be
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authentic with the students and
be a real person that has kids,
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that has a life, that struggles
with different things.
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You know, whatever, I'm having a
bad day, good day, whatever.
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But also like I'm on stage when
I'm in the classroom, like I'm
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in, I'm in front of the kids and
I'm expected to fulfill a role.
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And so regardless of what's
going on at home on that given
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day, when I show up here,
they're expecting something from
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me.
I could be as authentic as I can
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be.
I can tell, hey, you know,
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having a weird day or whatever,
but then getting into like a
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hey, I'm still here for these
kids.
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And regardless of what I feel
like, I have God's put me here
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and I could pour out whatever I
got here and and trust that he's
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going to provide whatever I need
in those situations, if that
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makes sense.
That makes that makes total
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sense.
Alright, so you're talking about
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having an influence on kids and
I think you know from my
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experience teaching here a
couple of years, some of those
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kids will.
Let you have an influence.
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On them and some.
You know, don't.
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They're pretty.
Private or they just have a wall
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up around them.
But I remember you telling a
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story about when you were a
student here, about how a
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teacher had a huge influence on
on.
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You so yeah, for me I had a
teacher here was also a
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principal here Doctor Houston
who spent a lot of time with me
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both when I became a teacher and
also when I was a student.
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But in this particular case, I
was probably 10th grade, I was
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dealing with a lot of stuff in
all 10th grade already trying to
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figure out kind of who you are.
If I believe in God, like, you
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know what, I, what does God want
me to be those kind of things
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and deal with like depression
and those kind of things.
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And I was having a particularly
kind of weird sort of day, just
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like a short season of really
depression.
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And I remember walking down the
hallway and seeing Doctor
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Houston.
She came over and said hi and
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then, you know, whatever for a
second.
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But then she kind of walked on
about her day.
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And then going to class, I don't
remember what the class was in
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that moment because quite
frankly, my head was kind of
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spinning.
And I remember getting called
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out of class at that time.
And that was kind of usual.
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But I didn't think I had a
doctor.
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There's probably anything going
on.
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And what had happened was Doctor
Houston had seen me.
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She had known just from my
facial expressions, from the
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tone of my voice, that something
wasn't right, that, you know, I
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was going through something.
And she cared enough and she
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understood enough who I was to
realize, hey, there's something
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here.
And kind of pulled me aside and
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had a pretty long conversation,
kind of getting to get an idea
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of where I was and what was
going on and kind of getting rid
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of the problem.
And it felt good in that moment
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to kind of be seen and, and,
and, and people think time to
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pay attention to you, You know,
when you're 15, you feel like,
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you know, you're a little fish
in a big, you know, big pond or
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whatever, no matter what school
it is, even a small place like
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this.
And so that there was that a
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level of individual care and
concern that I was taken out of
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class for probably an hour and
just was able to kind of go
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through and let loose of this in
an area where I felt safe was
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profoundly important for me at
that point, my development.
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That's pretty amazing.
And now you as a teacher, like,
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can't you know, dude, kind of
look for those same kind of
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things And you know the people.
It's like every day you kind of
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see both sides of it.
I'll tell you, Matt is very
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attentive.
Saw you in the soccer season.
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They didn't see you for a while.
And then at Lidia's graduation
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party, saw you.
And the first thing you said to
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me was growing that you said
ferocious beard.
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And they gave me the confidence.
Haven't haven't trimmed it
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since.
I'm going to keep it.
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That's awesome.
That's awesome.
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Yeah, the go to there looks
pretty good on you, man.
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It's not something I can pull
off, but certainly something
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you're pulling off quite well,
man, so I expect you keep doing.
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It you guys.
Can grow such glorious fears you
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know, this is what I'm stuck
with I'm trying to do the best
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best I can, but let's say you
got good good attention,
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attention to detail, you know
and like with my job I see
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patients and I see them two or
three days a week, but you can
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see these people every single
day and I feel like I catch a
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lot of stuff with my patients
that like their position will
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miss because you see them you
know when you're sick or
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whatever it's like, oh, you pick
up on something just having that
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time it's pretty valuable That's
one thing I I, we've had a great
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experience with Northwood, but
just the investment of teachers
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that pick up on this thing it's
a it's a pretty pretty neat role
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because I know you know teaching
you get to have that influence
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but just like with any other job
there's you know, challenges
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with it no.
Doubt.
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Yeah.
And that's like the big one
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because obviously we can do
something like this.
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It's not about the money.
Otherwise you'd be doing pretty
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much anything else.
It is about those connections
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that you do.
And I don't mean that a negative
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way or majority of what, but
like that's, that's the reality
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of it, you know, but you do it
because those situations pop up
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and like, look, the cool thing
about being here is there's any
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number of different subjects
that are going on all day that
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you can talk about.
I love a few things in life,
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football, I love history and I
love theology.
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And at different points
throughout my day, I'm I'm kind
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of talking about all of them.
And so those oftentimes
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different situations create
those sort of inroads.
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And so so much of like your job
is about appearances to the
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kids.
Like you can be kind of glib and
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snarky in a fun way, but if
you're if you're over the top
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with that, you give off an image
of I don't care.
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And that's the last thing you
want to do.
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So you want to make yourself
approach, but you want to be fun
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and kind of interesting to the
kids so that they want to like
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be in your class, even though
they're not like subject
442
00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:29,200
material.
You know, he's all right, but at
443
00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:31,560
the same time you have to make
yourself seem approachable.
444
00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:33,640
So when the time comes and
there's something really going
445
00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:37,080
on, you may be somebody they can
turn to and kind of guy, because
446
00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:39,000
that's what this is about, to be
honest.
447
00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:40,600
Yeah, I don't know if you can
think about this, Michael.
448
00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:43,360
When I like, I think back to
when I was in elementary, middle
449
00:19:43,360 --> 00:19:46,000
school, high school, I had
honestly have teachers that
450
00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,000
really care about me.
But there there's like maybe 3
451
00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:52,000
or 4 that I'm like, man, this my
8th grade history teacher.
452
00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:55,360
Like I had someone I could go to
and say something, have those
453
00:19:55,360 --> 00:19:58,440
people in your life that, you
know, stick in my mind, you
454
00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:00,480
know, 20 years later or
whatever.
455
00:20:01,360 --> 00:20:04,160
So, and one thing I want to hit
on with you talking about, you
456
00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:08,400
know, you know, teaching and.
You're not doing for the money,
457
00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:11,400
that kind of thing, because you
work other jobs too to make this
458
00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:12,960
happen or another chore.
Yeah, right.
459
00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:16,720
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Remind me you were actually
460
00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:17,800
doing this.
You're cutting grass, right?
461
00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:20,640
Yeah.
So you're, I mean, that's pretty
462
00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:21,760
busy.
You do that during the school
463
00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:22,720
year too or?
Yeah.
464
00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:25,600
So obviously there's kind of
peak season for this.
465
00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:28,920
So it's something we started
when my wife was staying home.
466
00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:32,160
My wife April, want to stay home
with when our second child was
467
00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:34,600
born, Nora.
And so it was an opportunity
468
00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:36,640
where I said, OK, well, let's
try this first season, see what
469
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,440
happens.
And it's one of my favorite
470
00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:39,680
things we did.
It's one of the things I'm most
471
00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:43,680
proud of that we were able to
give her that time with our kids
472
00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:45,920
even, you know, despite whatever
financial stuff was going on,
473
00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:47,760
God's faithful provided in that
time period.
474
00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:49,840
But yeah, we started my own a
couple of yards and then it
475
00:20:49,840 --> 00:20:51,920
became kind of 15.
And then probably the peak of it
476
00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:55,400
became probably about 30.
And you do, I do that basically
477
00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:59,520
when school starts back, I'll go
teach throughout the day, kind
478
00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:00,520
of hang out with a group of
kids.
479
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:04,080
So we have six classes a day.
I tend to loosely call the the
480
00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:07,080
after time seven period because
there's this whole kind of group
481
00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:08,760
of kids that kind of comes by
that I have a standard
482
00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:10,520
relationship with.
And we goof around and most
483
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:12,240
times it's pretty casual.
Sometimes it's more serious.
484
00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:15,080
And then after that we leave, we
fill up the the mower in the
485
00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:17,480
truck and we go cut 3 or 4 yards
and then we go home.
486
00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:20,960
And that's kind of what the day
looks like till my perch
487
00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:26,720
available.
He is saying this because he
488
00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:31,640
knows that his daughter in this
case is Karis was part of a
489
00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:34,760
campaign of blowing up my school
e-mail one night.
490
00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:38,640
I got the next day and I had
like 14 emails and I'm like, Oh,
491
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:41,160
no, I I said a stupid.
I must have said a stupid class.
492
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,560
It was like it could happen.
I'm like, OK, but I don't I
493
00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:45,160
don't remember saying this
stupid.
494
00:21:45,360 --> 00:21:47,200
So I'm like, so I haven't looked
the emails here, but I'm like,
495
00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,480
it's like 645 more.
I'm filled with dreads.
496
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:51,320
I'm like, I'm something's
happened.
497
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:53,360
And also I like look at the
headline.
498
00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,120
It's like, it's like mowing
shirts.
499
00:21:56,120 --> 00:21:57,960
Can we please get a mowing shirt
or whatever?
500
00:21:58,120 --> 00:22:01,360
And it's like, because my
company logo company, I mean,
501
00:22:01,360 --> 00:22:05,520
it's it's me and my wife works
the phones and sets up when I
502
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:07,760
got cut.
This, this is a pretty, pretty,
503
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:09,600
pretty low end sort of deal
here.
504
00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:11,600
And God bless my wife from being
the brains behind this whole
505
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:13,280
thing.
I pick stuff up, put it down and
506
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,680
I ride in circles and yards and
the rest of it's up to her to
507
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:19,120
kind of make everything work.
But the shirts have the yetis on
508
00:22:19,120 --> 00:22:20,880
it.
So it's just a Yeti pushing a
509
00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,640
push mower.
And I was, I was not telling the
510
00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:26,600
kids the name of the company for
a while And I was basically
511
00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:30,760
stalked by multiple classes of
kids.
512
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,480
And I don't mean like multiple
8th grade classes.
513
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:35,240
I mean there was like a group
effort between like 3 different
514
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:38,320
grades to try to like figure out
what the name of the company was
515
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:40,440
and look it up on Facebook and
maybe there's a Facebook review
516
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:42,240
and like all this kind of stuff
to find out.
517
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,120
And they eventually find out and
they're like, we need Yeti
518
00:22:44,120 --> 00:22:47,080
shirts and we need them like now
because the company name is.
519
00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:51,160
Sweaty Yeti.
Well, I wasn't.
520
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:53,560
I'll be honest, at first I
wasn't thrilled with it but but
521
00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:55,400
I was sold on this because at
the time a friend of mine was
522
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:57,120
helping this COVID.
We're all unfair what we're
523
00:22:57,120 --> 00:22:59,240
doing, but a friend, one of mine
was like, hey, we could just
524
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,120
start cutting yards, see what
happens because we didn't really
525
00:23:01,120 --> 00:23:02,600
know what we're going to do, you
know, for working that time
526
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:04,920
period.
And so he started with me and
527
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,600
he's kind of more marketing
driven and kind of a Jack of all
528
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,200
trades kind of guy.
And he's like, listen, we can
529
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,400
come up with this name.
People will number one remember
530
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:16,240
you and #2 we get church with
Gettys on them.
531
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:17,880
And I'm like, where do I sign
up?
532
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:21,920
However, since then, in the
effort to look up my company
533
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:26,880
company, if you loosely the kids
found that there's a guy called
534
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,400
the abominable MO man.
And I don't know who the
535
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,800
abominable MO man is, but I'm so
jealous at that name.
536
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:38,160
And I'm like, I only have like
nickels to my name, but I I
537
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:42,200
would pay a large sum of nickels
to take abominable MO man off of
538
00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:44,440
you because look respect the
game.
539
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,520
And that name was fantastic.
The only other one I've seen
540
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:48,680
that I really like.
There's a dude out there who I
541
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,240
see him around as I'm cut yards
to his law and order, which I
542
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:57,240
respect.
It's solid, but I.
543
00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:59,920
Also just love the idea in my
mind that like rival mowing
544
00:23:59,920 --> 00:24:02,360
companies like you're cutting a
line and they're cutting doing
545
00:24:02,360 --> 00:24:07,120
some.
Sweet 0 turning tricks, we go
546
00:24:07,360 --> 00:24:08,840
popping a wheelie on it.
Yeah sure.
547
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:10,240
That's that's what we're all
doing out there.
548
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:11,960
Just having just having a huge
competition.
549
00:24:12,120 --> 00:24:14,680
There's the cutting the yard
part, sure, but what this really
550
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:17,480
is is an ego trip.
A bunch of a bunch of meat heads
551
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:19,760
where we just try to outdo each
other with mowing tricks.
552
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:21,400
That's great.
You should go head to head.
553
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:22,560
We should have a down to earth.
Oh, there.
554
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:24,280
We go, that's awesome, that's
awesome.
555
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:31,160
No, but I, I really respect I, I
think, you know, you look out at
556
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:33,840
the world today and it's like
this is a whole different
557
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:38,720
tangent, but it's, you know, to
me, being a man is like you're,
558
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:39,560
you're working, you're
providing.
559
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,880
It's like when you need to do
things and work things, you just
560
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:44,160
do that kind of stuff and that,
that, that's real cool.
561
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:48,880
So you can teach and have
influence in lives, which which
562
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:51,880
I I really like.
I think that's you know, I know
563
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:56,200
Michelle experience that how how
many of Michelle kids anytime. 3
564
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:58,960
now and and the trains going to
keep her open.
565
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:03,080
So I have, of my 10 years
teaching, I think I've taught a
566
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:08,200
mod for for of nine years so
far, just 10th year, I've taught
567
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,800
him out for seven of them.
And I have a brief reprieve this
568
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:14,920
year where I have no mod and
it's only to kind of get me
569
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,600
going here and get me refueled
up because I'll have another one
570
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:19,240
next year.
He left the note.
571
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:22,480
I think it was a because year,
but one year it said that
572
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:24,960
basically the mantra like the
Russian nesting dolls.
573
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,880
It's like you open one up and
there's another one, you open it
574
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:27,680
up.
There's another Oh yeah.
575
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,240
It's just they keep, they keep
coming.
576
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,840
It's just a conferor belt and
they're just an army of them and
577
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,400
they're all great kids.
And sincerely, I've been blessed
578
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,400
to have them in class.
They're all very different and
579
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:38,400
enjoy having all of them.
Let's.
580
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:43,600
Just do a quick ranking I'm.
Not going to be able to do that.
581
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,280
I'll talk about a bunch of
nonsense on this mic, but not
582
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,640
that smart.
Man, smart man.
583
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:54,840
All right.
Well, maybe we.
584
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:56,520
Close this one here.
It's great.
585
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,160
And then we launch into a second
episode.
586
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,280
So stay tuned.
Next Thursday, we'll catch the
587
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:06,520
second-half of this interview.
So I think you know what you
588
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:08,520
have to do, but do you remember
what you have to?
589
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:12,640
Do.
It's not like I don't even know
590
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:16,720
where to begin here.
I'm stuck and I know you're
591
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,120
going to do this to me, so thank
you.
592
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,800
So if you could feed me the lawn
and I will look at the other.
593
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,200
One on his shirt.
It's got one of the words on
594
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:26,120
there that.
Take take to the other case.
595
00:26:26,120 --> 00:26:30,360
So am I just supposed to take to
theology or am I supposed to?
596
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:33,600
That's our take.
I should have said something
597
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:34,480
that Oh, OK.
There we go.
598
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:35,560
OK, I got you.
OK, there we go.
599
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:37,800
All right, so you'll do it.
And that's our take.
600
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:42,200
Nice, nice.
Thanks for listening to Take 2.
601
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602
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All right.
Well, welcome.
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And we have a guest with us
today, Mr. Doctor.
3
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Bush.
Matthew.
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Matt Gilbert and the Flesh.
Glad to be here and I hear that
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you're somewhat of a
connoisseur, like an expert on 7
6
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legged octopi AKA.
Septopus OK, there we go.
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OK, I was made an expert by your
daughter who has developed this
8
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like, whimsical storyline around
Fred Deceptipus and various
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injuries and travails that he's
went through.
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Lydia.
This definitely, I think Lydia.
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I'm probably almost out.
Fell drew one on his board every
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day after school.
And so we created, yeah, this
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like, weird situation that I
eventually started to take
14
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advantage of where I have 8th
graders for homeroom and they
15
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would come in and there would be
this and it would be labeled as
16
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Fred Deceptipus.
But like, it was kind of kept a
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secret from like the 8th
graders.
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It's like this rite of passage
thing of like, oh, we don't, we
19
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don't talk about that.
That's like not a thing that was
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a that was a Jonathan White
trick there to go ahead and just
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like just make it a secret.
And the more like mystery there
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is around it, the bigger deal it
becomes, Even if it's just a
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crazy, crazy senior doing crazy
senior stuff.
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I think it's from finding an emo
too or something.
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Like, yeah, yeah, yeah.
It was never explained to me in
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that way.
That would make that would make
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far more sense.
I I should brush up on my kid
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movies.
Yeah.
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Yeah.
Because, yeah, I did not know
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that.
I just thought it was a thing.
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And again, there's this whole
back story about it.
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It's a it's a long story, so
very cool.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Well, my question, I feel like
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this would be a great place to
solve a dilemma.
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I'm a little bit nervous to ask
it because if if you remember, I
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know you remember last year,
man, our kids were on a pretty
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amazing soccer team.
Yes, we were undefeated, I
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think, correct which and that's
what it's all about at that.
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Age.
Oh, that's what, yes, when
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you're talking about 7 and 8
year olds, what you want to do
41
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is mow for the competition.
That's what we were trying to
42
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instill with the killer instinct
in children.
43
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Which Simeon Matt Son, stalwart
goalie.
44
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It was amazing.
I did not.
45
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And I guess you played goalie.
Yeah, yeah.
46
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So growing up, like I was a
bigger dude and, you know, I
47
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wasn't exactly fleet afoot.
And so we didn't have a football
48
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team at all at the time.
I'm like, I need to run around a
49
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good bit.
And so I would go out there and
50
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play soccer and like they were
driving midfielder different
51
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places like that.
And finally they're like you're
52
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goalie, bro.
And so they finally put me back
53
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there and it it worked out
pretty well.
54
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I got pretty decent at it
because I was honoring enough to
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kind of run out and kind of dive
and be the crazy stuff and just
56
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be kind of a crazy person to do
football things as a goalie.
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And so apparently it's genetic
because Simeon kind of does a
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lot of the same sort of stuff.
I see the same mannerisms, like
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the same kind of mental thought
processes.
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And so I find myself way more
nervous watching him do it.
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It's weird being a parent watch
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this kind of stuff because when
you play you don't think about
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it, but when you're watching
your kids out there and it's
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like that kind of thing, even at
such a low stakes thing as that,
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nervous.
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I've experienced that because
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seen her die for a ball and I'm
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You have those mixed.
Responses like you want them to
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be aggressive, but then you see
like a foot that's like this far
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from your face, it's not good.
It's like, hey, we want to stop
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the ball, but we also don't want
you to fracture an orbital well,
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but that's not something we want
to happen.
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I believe that's anatomically
correct that.
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Sounded great, but yeah, he's
got the good instincts, right.
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We were a great team,
undefeated.
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We some of those games we were
like really late.
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I think we weren't like
disrespectful, but we had a
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great team.
Yes, I would.
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I would wholly agree.
It was a lot of fun to watch and
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they all got so much better.
And to your infinite credit, you
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handled it great.
Like the kids had so much fun.
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They learned a lot.
And so anytime like as I get
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older, I appreciate kind of
institutions more and kind of
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the value they have in different
ways of shipping character and
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just letting kids have fun and
bringing parents together who
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may not have been together.
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facilitate that as the coach, my
introduction was.
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The head coach, yes.
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Did he have an assistant coach?
I did.
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So This is why I bring up
because I take a lot of heat
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because Michael's always like
we, I have assistant coach with
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him in basketball.
He's we and he's assistant.
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We've got kind of got back and
forth like when his daughter's
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playing, my kids playing.
And next year is like the
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perfect storm, where Jackson's
in second grade, Simeon's in
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second grade.
Absolutely.
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Phoebe's in kindergarten, which
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Jackson is like, he's a giant
second grader.
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He's gonna, I'm actually a
little bit nervous 'cause he's
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not, he's not like I don't.
Think kindergarteners.
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Isn't it 123 and then four and
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I don't think kindergarteners
can play basketball unless you
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no, no, sorry.
Sorry this is I'm thinking.
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Soccer, Soccer.
Soccer, which will be coming up.
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Yeah, we're trying to continue
the dynasty.
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Yeah, yeah.
It's called, Yeah, let's get the
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second ring.
You know, maybe we'll get the
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team rings.
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And.
He pops all the way around.
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I I love it and Jonathan Weiss
could could play.
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So I'm just saying we could have
a a lot.
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A lot of team or.
White.
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Hell, Gilbert team so.
I bring this up because we got
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to figure out the dynamic of the
coaching tree here because,
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yeah, there's a lot of us, you
know?
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So I don't, I don't know, I was
like, maybe we can solve this
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problem, you know?
I'm here for it.
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I will fulfill whatever role is
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We should have like coordinate
like 4 coaches on the side and
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right there we're all coaching,
you know?
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If it's soccer, I probably just
should be the conditioning coach
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or something like that.
That's great.
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Like explaining offsides or
something, you know I.
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Just I just want to stand there
and draw a bunch of like
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esoteric nonsense on a on a
board and just start like
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showing it the kids just to see
their responses.
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It's an ornery approach, I
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enjoy it.
It'd be great and I'll, I'll
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tell you what I, we probably
could have used, I don't know if
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you noticed this, but there were
times where I think our team was
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the worst at it, where those on
the bench were like 5 fields
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over and I was like trying to
coach the people on the field
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and out.
It was chaos, but it was good,
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you know?
It was fun and like watching my
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son over there because he was
definitely a part of the of the
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of the group that was kind of
doing their own thing over there
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at times.
Was kind of fun to see because
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I'm like, hey, at least he's
having fun.
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Coach Hill's really in the game,
and whatever's happening back
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there on that whimsical pirate
ship just is what it is.
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But we were undefeated.
That's anyway.
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Carry on.
Yeah.
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So you, you have listened to the
podcast some, correct?
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Yeah, Yeah, you don't.
It's OK if you haven't listened
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to every single one of them.
But did you catch our series on
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wisdom literature from the Old
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I heard that that was a thing.
I had started one of them and I
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never got to the one which I
assume this is going direction
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of talking about Ecclesiastes
because I knew what this was.
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I was I'm getting funneled into
an Ecclesiastes.
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So Jonathan asked us to to maybe
have you just say a short word
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on the book of Ecclesiastes.
See, here's the thing with with
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Jonathan White and for y'all
that know him.
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Obviously, I know a lot of the
listeners do, he does these kind
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of things just as a troll tactic
because he knows like my, my
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mind is a, is a fragile
fractured sort of thing.
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thought going.
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And once the train starts going,
I can't really focus on anything
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else.
And so his goal is always to
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like, like get some thought and
set some thought in my head
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before it ever starts.
And so he'll have a kid come in
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and he always plants a question
with a kid because he's a
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coward.
He doesn't know himself.
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So wherever you are out there,
I'm sure you'll see this at some
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point in time.
You've already tried to plant a
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question here.
You're a coward.
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There was talk of scuffing the
floors.
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I'm just totally kidding.
I don't get anyone in trouble.
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No scores.
I'm not.
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Scuffing any floor on purpose.
So yeah, we, we, we have been
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graced to be able to record off
our normal location in the
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hallowed halls of Northwood
Academy and those floors.
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Have been waxed about Northwoods
or Northwood, I'm sorry it's.
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Terribly offensive to say that.
That the hallway smelled.
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I'm learning like all, all these
things, yeah.
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Yeah, you got to, you got to
learn the way of the land here
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as you go through the hallway,
every each other's own sort of
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thing.
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You should walk lower school,
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school that all three smell.
Different, different.
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Lower School smells like if you.
Blindfolded me and dropped me
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off at part of the school.
I would know where I was.
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That'd be amazing.
Like if they're like a popcorn
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smell.
Clearly you've dropped me off at
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the cafeteria.
If you drop me off over here,
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it's usually like a like a
cheaper Cologne type smell.
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We won't talk about the smells
of the middle school hallway,
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but they are unique.
There we go.
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Yes, yes.
So it's a different experience
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all together.
And I would say lower school, it
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smells like they're just hyping
up hand sanitizer fumes all day.
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It's like, no wonder my, you
know, I had a kid there that
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would come home with like just,
you know, raw stuff.
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Like they're like washing their.
Hands 15 times a day and putting
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sanitizer on.
Them because they're all
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diseases.
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You work with the most likely
carriers of almost everything
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somehow.
And yet obviously you live in
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utter fear of it.
That's just the way it goes.
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I love it.
We cover a lot just in the
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banter.
This is great.
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I'm excited for this.
This will be awesome.
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Matt, can you just stare into
the soul of the camera, OK?
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I'm I'm excited about this,
although I'm starting to forget
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the lines.
I'm a little nervous here.
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I'm not going to lie to you.
So let me just let me just go
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with this and say it's time to
take it to the next level here
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and let's fire up that twangy
music.
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From the hearts of the Low
Country in South Carolina.
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It's the Take Two podcast where
we take theology to the next
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level.
Well, Matt, really excited to
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have you on the podcast.
And, and really the first thing
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that came to my mind is you, you
know, my kids go to Northwood.
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It's great.
I grew up, I went to a Christian
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School, you went to Christian
School, you went to Northwood as
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a student and now you're
teaching at the school you went
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to.
And I think, you know, not only
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does that encompass a lot of
year, I mean a few decades and
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you can see how things have
evolved.
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Like what's the good, what's the
bad?
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It's just so interesting to be
in that kind of ecosystem and
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just being able to pour into
kids life lives and see like, I
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don't know, I don't know.
I, that's what I want to hear
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about your testimony, how it
relates to all that.
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So I'm sure a lot of things will
come out of that.
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And I'm also interested to know
how your parents, because they
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don't go to Northwick Assembly,
do they?
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No, they go to this.
School over like north side or
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faith assembly or.
Something and this we went to
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church here for, for a long
time.
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here for years and years and
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years.
And so this is from a church
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standpoint and from a school
standpoint, kind of the to the
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more central institutions in my
life that kind of developed who
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I was.
And so I have a lot to be
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thankful for for this place.
You know, it's why I've come
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back here.
It's weird to be back, but
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certainly.
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I mean, we chose this because I
think you're talking for.
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Yeah.
How many years?
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This is going to be 10.
Oh, a decade, Yeah.
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So which is like, it's crazy to
think I've been back here for a
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decade now, but yeah, it's been
this is going to be your 10.
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starting off like like most kids
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that grew up in the Bible Belt,
like I was expose the Gospel
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early.
I did believe myself to be a
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believer.
But there's this kind of rite of
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passage thing that I see kind
of, you know, kind of coming of
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age sort of thing that I see
with like all the kids different
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ages.
Some it's more severe than
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others were like you start to
question everything where it, it
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has to switch from, from your,
from your parents faith to your
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faith.
And for some people that's a
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really easy transition.
For other people, it's not.
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And so my mom particularly was
very good about like, look at
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the Bible, said it like she went
with it and, and she was
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comfortable with that and did
not have to think through like a
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lot of different peripheral
elements.
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A lot of the students are that
way, but there's a type of
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student that was very much so
like me at the time.
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institution created some guide
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rails for me that allowed me
different avenues to ask
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questions, that allowed me
different avenues to struggle
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both with faith and just with
being 15 or whatever, and to try
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to come to grips and make the
faith my own.
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most pleased with, to be honest,
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being back here is there are
definitely situations with kids
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over the years that I've carried
on a relationship after they've
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left that I've taught in
multiple years, some of them
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three years in a situation like
that where like you see the
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growth and you know that in some
small way, like, look, I'm not
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the Holy Spirit, I'm not doing
the work.
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I'm able to kind of be a little
bit of those guide rails for
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them.
And that's like the most
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thrilling process and like
teaching middle school and high
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school because I've, I've done
about middle school for most of
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the time.
Last year I switched and I, I
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went from teaching to 7th and
8th grade to now I teach 8th
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grade and seniors and like, and
so it's a different dynamic
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altogether of reaching kids in
different situations that have
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different struggles.
But seeing like different groups
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now and have been here 10 years,
go from the far end of the other
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hall, which you don't know what
that is.
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If you don't, you're not around
here, but that's the middle
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school hall.
And then you slowly March your
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way over here and then see who
they become.
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The seniors is kind of the thing
that keeps you coming back.
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I am fascinated in not only like
I grew up in a Christian School
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and I went to Christian School,
but I never have taught at the
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Christian School I went to.
That is like just.
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Amazing, weird dude.
Like I still at times, like I
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was like up until a couple years
ago, the assistant principal who
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was like the hammer, if he got
in trouble, he's made of wires.
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And like, he didn't like, he
didn't like really show emotion
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like a real boy.
He was kind of Pinocchio, you
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know what I mean?
And so but like, but like if
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Pinocchio and Terminator had a
baby, that's like what he was
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like, OK.
And so like he would come by my
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classroom and it would be about
a student, but like 15 year old
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me remembered like, oh crap, I'm
getting suspended because like
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if Mr. Combs came by and it came
by my room, I was in trouble.
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And like I couldn't get that out
of my head.
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And so like anytime you showed
up, like my heart kind of
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skipped because I'm like, I'm,
I'm toast.
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Like this is going to be
terrible.
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And so it's just weird.
So it's different.
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It's different being in the
building that like you, not the
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same building, but the same
institution that kind of made
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you in some way.
That is pretty cool.
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Not to get too much on a
tangent, biggest difference
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between an eighth grader and a
senior or like one of like what,
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what how would you characterize
like because you teach both of
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those right now.
So you're going back and forth.
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OK, yes.
Man, OK.
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Oh, that's a really hard
question.
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Let's start with just the amount
of showers taken.
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I think for seniors,
considerably higher, but no, I
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mean, that's more so the younger
groups there, but there's a lot
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more in depth questioning.
There's a lot more cynicism from
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the older groups, if I had to be
honest.
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And there's a lot more they're
much better at kind of if you're
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faking it in any way, like kind
of smelling that out and knowing
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like, OK, he's saying the words
he has to say because this is
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where he works or this is
something he really believes.
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And like they know that pretty
quick.
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And so there is a balance
though, as a teacher, I'll be
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honest, that is difficult at
times between I need to be
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authentic with the students and
be a real person that has kids,
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that has a life, that struggles
with different things.
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You know, whatever, I'm having a
bad day, good day, whatever.
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But also like I'm on stage when
I'm in the classroom, like I'm
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in, I'm in front of the kids and
I'm expected to fulfill a role.
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And so regardless of what's
going on at home on that given
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day, when I show up here,
they're expecting something from
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me.
I could be as authentic as I can
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be.
I can tell, hey, you know,
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having a weird day or whatever,
but then getting into like a
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hey, I'm still here for these
kids.
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And regardless of what I feel
like, I have God's put me here
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and I could pour out whatever I
got here and and trust that he's
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going to provide whatever I need
in those situations, if that
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makes sense.
That makes that makes total
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sense.
Alright, so you're talking about
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having an influence on kids and
I think you know from my
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experience teaching here a
couple of years, some of those
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kids will.
Let you have an influence.
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On them and some.
You know, don't.
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They're pretty.
Private or they just have a wall
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up around them.
But I remember you telling a
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story about when you were a
student here, about how a
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teacher had a huge influence on
on.
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You so yeah, for me I had a
teacher here was also a
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principal here Doctor Houston
who spent a lot of time with me
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both when I became a teacher and
also when I was a student.
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But in this particular case, I
was probably 10th grade, I was
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dealing with a lot of stuff in
all 10th grade already trying to
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figure out kind of who you are.
If I believe in God, like, you
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know what, I, what does God want
me to be those kind of things
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and deal with like depression
and those kind of things.
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And I was having a particularly
kind of weird sort of day, just
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like a short season of really
depression.
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And I remember walking down the
hallway and seeing Doctor
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Houston.
She came over and said hi and
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then, you know, whatever for a
second.
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But then she kind of walked on
about her day.
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And then going to class, I don't
remember what the class was in
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that moment because quite
frankly, my head was kind of
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spinning.
And I remember getting called
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out of class at that time.
And that was kind of usual.
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But I didn't think I had a
doctor.
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There's probably anything going
on.
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And what had happened was Doctor
Houston had seen me.
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She had known just from my
facial expressions, from the
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tone of my voice, that something
wasn't right, that, you know, I
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was going through something.
And she cared enough and she
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understood enough who I was to
realize, hey, there's something
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here.
And kind of pulled me aside and
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had a pretty long conversation,
kind of getting to get an idea
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of where I was and what was
going on and kind of getting rid
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of the problem.
And it felt good in that moment
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to kind of be seen and, and,
and, and people think time to
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pay attention to you, You know,
when you're 15, you feel like,
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you know, you're a little fish
in a big, you know, big pond or
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whatever, no matter what school
it is, even a small place like
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this.
And so that there was that a
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level of individual care and
concern that I was taken out of
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class for probably an hour and
just was able to kind of go
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through and let loose of this in
an area where I felt safe was
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profoundly important for me at
that point, my development.
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That's pretty amazing.
And now you as a teacher, like,
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can't you know, dude, kind of
look for those same kind of
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things And you know the people.
It's like every day you kind of
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see both sides of it.
I'll tell you, Matt is very
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attentive.
Saw you in the soccer season.
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They didn't see you for a while.
And then at Lidia's graduation
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party, saw you.
And the first thing you said to
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me was growing that you said
ferocious beard.
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And they gave me the confidence.
Haven't haven't trimmed it
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since.
I'm going to keep it.
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That's awesome.
That's awesome.
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Yeah, the go to there looks
pretty good on you, man.
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It's not something I can pull
off, but certainly something
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you're pulling off quite well,
man, so I expect you keep doing.
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It you guys.
Can grow such glorious fears you
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know, this is what I'm stuck
with I'm trying to do the best
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best I can, but let's say you
got good good attention,
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attention to detail, you know
and like with my job I see
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patients and I see them two or
three days a week, but you can
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see these people every single
day and I feel like I catch a
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lot of stuff with my patients
that like their position will
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miss because you see them you
know when you're sick or
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whatever it's like, oh, you pick
up on something just having that
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time it's pretty valuable That's
one thing I I, we've had a great
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experience with Northwood, but
just the investment of teachers
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that pick up on this thing it's
a it's a pretty pretty neat role
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because I know you know teaching
you get to have that influence
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but just like with any other job
there's you know, challenges
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with it no.
Doubt.
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Yeah.
And that's like the big one
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because obviously we can do
something like this.
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It's not about the money.
Otherwise you'd be doing pretty
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much anything else.
It is about those connections
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that you do.
And I don't mean that a negative
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way or majority of what, but
like that's, that's the reality
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of it, you know, but you do it
because those situations pop up
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and like, look, the cool thing
about being here is there's any
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number of different subjects
that are going on all day that
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you can talk about.
I love a few things in life,
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football, I love history and I
love theology.
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And at different points
throughout my day, I'm I'm kind
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of talking about all of them.
And so those oftentimes
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different situations create
those sort of inroads.
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And so so much of like your job
is about appearances to the
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kids.
Like you can be kind of glib and
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snarky in a fun way, but if
you're if you're over the top
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with that, you give off an image
of I don't care.
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And that's the last thing you
want to do.
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So you want to make yourself
approach, but you want to be fun
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and kind of interesting to the
kids so that they want to like
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be in your class, even though
they're not like subject
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material.
You know, he's all right, but at
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the same time you have to make
yourself seem approachable.
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So when the time comes and
there's something really going
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on, you may be somebody they can
turn to and kind of guy, because
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that's what this is about, to be
honest.
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Yeah, I don't know if you can
think about this, Michael.
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When I like, I think back to
when I was in elementary, middle
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school, high school, I had
honestly have teachers that
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really care about me.
But there there's like maybe 3
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or 4 that I'm like, man, this my
8th grade history teacher.
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Like I had someone I could go to
and say something, have those
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people in your life that, you
know, stick in my mind, you
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know, 20 years later or
whatever.
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So, and one thing I want to hit
on with you talking about, you
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know, you know, teaching and.
You're not doing for the money,
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that kind of thing, because you
work other jobs too to make this
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happen or another chore.
Yeah, right.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Remind me you were actually
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doing this.
You're cutting grass, right?
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Yeah.
So you're, I mean, that's pretty
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busy.
You do that during the school
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year too or?
Yeah.
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So obviously there's kind of
peak season for this.
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So it's something we started
when my wife was staying home.
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My wife April, want to stay home
with when our second child was
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born, Nora.
And so it was an opportunity
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where I said, OK, well, let's
try this first season, see what
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happens.
And it's one of my favorite
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things we did.
It's one of the things I'm most
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proud of that we were able to
give her that time with our kids
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even, you know, despite whatever
financial stuff was going on,
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God's faithful provided in that
time period.
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But yeah, we started my own a
couple of yards and then it
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became kind of 15.
And then probably the peak of it
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became probably about 30.
And you do, I do that basically
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when school starts back, I'll go
teach throughout the day, kind
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of hang out with a group of
kids.
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So we have six classes a day.
I tend to loosely call the the
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after time seven period because
there's this whole kind of group
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of kids that kind of comes by
that I have a standard
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relationship with.
And we goof around and most
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times it's pretty casual.
Sometimes it's more serious.
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And then after that we leave, we
fill up the the mower in the
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truck and we go cut 3 or 4 yards
and then we go home.
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And that's kind of what the day
looks like till my perch
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available.
He is saying this because he
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knows that his daughter in this
case is Karis was part of a
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campaign of blowing up my school
e-mail one night.
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I got the next day and I had
like 14 emails and I'm like, Oh,
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no, I I said a stupid.
I must have said a stupid class.
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It was like it could happen.
I'm like, OK, but I don't I
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don't remember saying this
stupid.
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So I'm like, so I haven't looked
the emails here, but I'm like,
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it's like 645 more.
I'm filled with dreads.
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I'm like, I'm something's
happened.
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And also I like look at the
headline.
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It's like, it's like mowing
shirts.
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Can we please get a mowing shirt
or whatever?
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And it's like, because my
company logo company, I mean,
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it's it's me and my wife works
the phones and sets up when I
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got cut.
This, this is a pretty, pretty,
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pretty low end sort of deal
here.
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And God bless my wife from being
the brains behind this whole
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thing.
I pick stuff up, put it down and
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I ride in circles and yards and
the rest of it's up to her to
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kind of make everything work.
But the shirts have the yetis on
508
00:22:19,120 --> 00:22:20,880
it.
So it's just a Yeti pushing a
509
00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,640
push mower.
And I was, I was not telling the
510
00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:26,600
kids the name of the company for
a while And I was basically
511
00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:30,760
stalked by multiple classes of
kids.
512
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,480
And I don't mean like multiple
8th grade classes.
513
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:35,240
I mean there was like a group
effort between like 3 different
514
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:38,320
grades to try to like figure out
what the name of the company was
515
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:40,440
and look it up on Facebook and
maybe there's a Facebook review
516
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:42,240
and like all this kind of stuff
to find out.
517
00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,120
And they eventually find out and
they're like, we need Yeti
518
00:22:44,120 --> 00:22:47,080
shirts and we need them like now
because the company name is.
519
00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:51,160
Sweaty Yeti.
Well, I wasn't.
520
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:53,560
I'll be honest, at first I
wasn't thrilled with it but but
521
00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:55,400
I was sold on this because at
the time a friend of mine was
522
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:57,120
helping this COVID.
We're all unfair what we're
523
00:22:57,120 --> 00:22:59,240
doing, but a friend, one of mine
was like, hey, we could just
524
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,120
start cutting yards, see what
happens because we didn't really
525
00:23:01,120 --> 00:23:02,600
know what we're going to do, you
know, for working that time
526
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:04,920
period.
And so he started with me and
527
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,600
he's kind of more marketing
driven and kind of a Jack of all
528
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,200
trades kind of guy.
And he's like, listen, we can
529
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,400
come up with this name.
People will number one remember
530
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:16,240
you and #2 we get church with
Gettys on them.
531
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:17,880
And I'm like, where do I sign
up?
532
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:21,920
However, since then, in the
effort to look up my company
533
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:26,880
company, if you loosely the kids
found that there's a guy called
534
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,400
the abominable MO man.
And I don't know who the
535
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,800
abominable MO man is, but I'm so
jealous at that name.
536
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:38,160
And I'm like, I only have like
nickels to my name, but I I
537
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:42,200
would pay a large sum of nickels
to take abominable MO man off of
538
00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:44,440
you because look respect the
game.
539
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,520
And that name was fantastic.
The only other one I've seen
540
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:48,680
that I really like.
There's a dude out there who I
541
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,240
see him around as I'm cut yards
to his law and order, which I
542
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:57,240
respect.
It's solid, but I.
543
00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:59,920
Also just love the idea in my
mind that like rival mowing
544
00:23:59,920 --> 00:24:02,360
companies like you're cutting a
line and they're cutting doing
545
00:24:02,360 --> 00:24:07,120
some.
Sweet 0 turning tricks, we go
546
00:24:07,360 --> 00:24:08,840
popping a wheelie on it.
Yeah sure.
547
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:10,240
That's that's what we're all
doing out there.
548
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:11,960
Just having just having a huge
competition.
549
00:24:12,120 --> 00:24:14,680
There's the cutting the yard
part, sure, but what this really
550
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:17,480
is is an ego trip.
A bunch of a bunch of meat heads
551
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:19,760
where we just try to outdo each
other with mowing tricks.
552
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:21,400
That's great.
You should go head to head.
553
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:22,560
We should have a down to earth.
Oh, there.
554
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:24,280
We go, that's awesome, that's
awesome.
555
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:31,160
No, but I, I really respect I, I
think, you know, you look out at
556
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:33,840
the world today and it's like
this is a whole different
557
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:38,720
tangent, but it's, you know, to
me, being a man is like you're,
558
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:39,560
you're working, you're
providing.
559
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:41,880
It's like when you need to do
things and work things, you just
560
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:44,160
do that kind of stuff and that,
that, that's real cool.
561
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:48,880
So you can teach and have
influence in lives, which which
562
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:51,880
I I really like.
I think that's you know, I know
563
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:56,200
Michelle experience that how how
many of Michelle kids anytime. 3
564
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:58,960
now and and the trains going to
keep her open.
565
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:03,080
So I have, of my 10 years
teaching, I think I've taught a
566
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:08,200
mod for for of nine years so
far, just 10th year, I've taught
567
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,800
him out for seven of them.
And I have a brief reprieve this
568
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:14,920
year where I have no mod and
it's only to kind of get me
569
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,600
going here and get me refueled
up because I'll have another one
570
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:19,240
next year.
He left the note.
571
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:22,480
I think it was a because year,
but one year it said that
572
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:24,960
basically the mantra like the
Russian nesting dolls.
573
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:26,880
It's like you open one up and
there's another one, you open it
574
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:27,680
up.
There's another Oh yeah.
575
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,240
It's just they keep, they keep
coming.
576
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,840
It's just a conferor belt and
they're just an army of them and
577
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,400
they're all great kids.
And sincerely, I've been blessed
578
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,400
to have them in class.
They're all very different and
579
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:38,400
enjoy having all of them.
Let's.
580
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:43,600
Just do a quick ranking I'm.
Not going to be able to do that.
581
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,280
I'll talk about a bunch of
nonsense on this mic, but not
582
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,640
that smart.
Man, smart man.
583
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:54,840
All right.
Well, maybe we.
584
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:56,520
Close this one here.
It's great.
585
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,160
And then we launch into a second
episode.
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00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,280
So stay tuned.
Next Thursday, we'll catch the
587
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:06,520
second-half of this interview.
So I think you know what you
588
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:08,520
have to do, but do you remember
what you have to?
589
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:12,640
Do.
It's not like I don't even know
590
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:16,720
where to begin here.
I'm stuck and I know you're
591
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:18,120
going to do this to me, so thank
you.
592
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,800
So if you could feed me the lawn
and I will look at the other.
593
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:23,200
One on his shirt.
It's got one of the words on
594
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:26,120
there that.
Take take to the other case.
595
00:26:26,120 --> 00:26:30,360
So am I just supposed to take to
theology or am I supposed to?
596
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:33,600
That's our take.
I should have said something
597
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:34,480
that Oh, OK.
There we go.
598
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:35,560
OK, I got you.
OK, there we go.
599
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:37,800
All right, so you'll do it.
And that's our take.
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00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:42,200
Nice, nice.
Thanks for listening to Take 2.
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